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Social anxiety is a topic that has been on the rise for some time, and something that most people experience at some point in their lives, if not much more often than that. Social anxiety is what happens to the brain when you are low on practice and the social centers of your brain aren’t getting enough activity so they start to shut down and it goes into an anti-social mode. It is also what happens when we experience social traumas, that is, social experiences that do not cause us physical injury, but which the brain still wires in as trauma due to their potentially detrimental nature. These experiences include harsh rejections, bullying, public humiliations, heart break, and being ostracized from a social group. Basically being treated like the runt of a litter and having no social standing, or losing what social standing you once had, causes social anxiety. This is because in ancient times when we lived in small social groups, this was basically a death sentence. However today these experiences are not, they are simply an emotional hardship that we must sometimes endure. And it is natural to experience social anxiety in certain times and situations, such as when you are trying to meet new people because your last social circle had been treating you poorly, or towards potential mates if your last one broke your heart. And instead of going to a psychiatrist and getting prescribed some drug to make you feel better but not actually get better, this can actually be a growth experience that can lead to greater emotional strength, and social skills.
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Over the course of my life I have noticed that there are a successful socialite person who is welcomed everywhere they go and able to make friends with just about anyone. These rules are taught from childhood by high society or socialite parents, and sometimes by higher status individuals to lower status individuals when inviting them to social functions, or sometimes teachers or friends, but without having one of these people in your life to teach you how to function socially in situations where your manners really matter, you are bound to do something rude or offensive, or that shows low status or that you do not know how to function socially in these types of situations and probably do not get invited to many social functions of their nature. Thus showing bad social manners at any type of social function will most always cause you to not get invited to any like them in the future. This makes you socially unsuccessful and thus you will have low social status.
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Introduction
It’s no secret that most men do not understand women very well, and thus they have very little idea about what they are doing when they try to get women. Even the men who are good looking themselves, or think they are good with women often actually are not, and will fail and get rejected time and time again because of the mistakes they make. For in fact ALL men have 10 common general mistakes that they make with women.
These 10 mistakes are so common because of a number of things: the way men are socially conditioned and made to think this is how they are supposed to act with women, a lack of understanding of women and thinking that what works on themselves should work on a woman, being taught the wrong things by parents and peers, which used to work or may work in theory but actually do not in the real world of today, and sometimes just having limiting mindsets. Unfortunately any time that even one of these common mistakes come up in an interaction with a woman it will kill all chemistry you had with her, all of attraction she had for you, and destroy any chances you had with her. For these are the things that most rejections are due to.
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You may have heard before that there are a few different levels of consciousness, such as the unconscious, subconscious and conscious, or the Id, Ego and Superego. But there are actually 7 more specific levels of consciousness pertaining to how your mind processes thought and information in order to make it part of your consciousness and mental reality. These 7 are what I am going to teach you about in this article here today, and they are known as:
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How To Have Amazing Sex By Combining Seduction And Sexual Escalation With Communication And Consent
Now I want to talk about a very important topic. How To Have Amazing Sex By Combining Seduction & Sexual Escalation With Communication and Consent! Which means how to escalate sexually into foreplay and sex with someone while also gaining their consent along the way so that you are only doing things that they want you to do with them (and in many cases making them want you to do the things you want to do to them through a seductive process). And communicating about them definitively to make sure that the sexual experience you are having with them is mutually agreed upon and pleasurable for you both. This will ensure you can have a good sexual experience together and that they will want to come back for more, rather than feel any kind of regret afterwards.
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Many people do things to try to live the lifestyle that they want, to be happy and healthy, but are not successful in it, and wonder why even though they are doing X, Y and maybe Z too their problems haven’t corrected themselves and they aren’t living the optimal way they want to.
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For those who know anything about psychology you know that there are what are called “Personality Archetypes” which were first set forth by Carl Jung one of the pioneers of modern psychology, but now there are a lot of personality profiles that can tell you what your personality type is as well. When it comes to romantic relationships and how we relate to the opposite sex there are a specific set of personality archetypes for that and how we do so. These are especially exciting and illustrate the various personality traits and behavioral patterns people use for seduction and romance.
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The 25 Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships That You Most Commonly Hear In Society
-DEBUNKED!-
We’ve all heard it before. Floating around in society there are tons of bad ideas and advice and other messages about dating, love, sex and relationships that we get fed one way or another through our social conditioning. These may be told to you in a more or less direct manner by someone who knows you are in a relevant situation, or they may be more abstract ideas that are simply widely accepted by the consensus but not really spoken about explicitly. Either way, none of these ideas are talked about literally or in depth, because the more explicitly you speak about them, the more absurd they seem.
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Have you ever noticed how people in society tend to congregate into different groups (social cliques) based on their personality types? And that each person tends to have a certain status in their group, and each group tends to have a certain status in society? This is because societies exist with a social structure called a “hierarchy”, also known as “classes” of people, from the most dominant high status leaders at the top, to the subordinate/submissive and average members in the middle, to the unpopular low level/status members at the bottom, and even some outliers.
This is not something that has been organized intentionally by government authorities and social engineering, this is simply the inherent way of the world and the natural order of us social animals. And where you fall into place and exist in the social hierarchy is entirely based upon your social personality type and what your natural place in your social environment is. So if you have ever been curious about sociology and the social structure of society and why things are the way that they are, or wondered about who you are socially and why your social life is the way it is, this article is going to explain exactly that to you. We will start at the top of the social hierarchy, and work our way to the bottom.
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The Types Of People Who Are
Incapable Of A Healthy Relationships:
The “Dark Triad” Person
Most people out there have been in unhealthy relationships before. And oftentimes you found yourselves caught in these situations because your partner made you believe that they really cared about you, wanted to have a healthy relationship with you and were capable of one, and were willing to do what it took to make the relationship work, and that you could trust them in all of that. But no matter how much they made you believe these things, the relationship never ended up being healthy.
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What It Means To Be Sexually Healthy
The Criteria Of Sexual Health
Most people in the world are not sexually healthy. Rather the opposite, most people do not have a healthy active sex life, and are sexually unfulfilled, repressed, and frustrated, and thus sexually unhealthy. This is due to the sexually oppressive cultures we all live in. But sexual health is an important and integral part of both physical and mental health. So without being sexually healthy one cannot be physically or mentally healthy. And one can also not have a happy fulfilling lifestyle, since sexual fulfillment is an integral and important part to general fulfillment and happiness in life.
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Everyone has wants and needs in life, as well as things they do not want in life. And people want to be able to get what they do want, and not what they do not want. In fact being able to choose to get what you want and not what you don’t want is seen as one of the most fundamental inalienable human rights.
Why? Because that freedom to choose what happens to you goes right along with the fundamentally important human quality that we believe makes us human beings and gives us our humanity. What is that quality?
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Many people have probably heard the phrase “Sexual Freedom” before, and not exactly know what it means. And many people may think that they have sexual freedom when in actuality they do not. We live in a very sexually oppressive and controlling culture in which most people are actually not sexually free, as they do not feel free to make their own choices sexually due to various social pressures. And thus most people are not sexually healthy or happy, and will even take on the social narratives of their oppression to make excuses for why they are not doing what they really want to, or even deny that they want what they want, and say that they want what they are told to want by society, when in fact they do not. I recently put out a video on my philosophy of the value of sexual freedom that you may have seen. But in such a culture of sexual oppression in which people have been so brainwashed with the narratives of sexual oppression most people are complete strangers to the idea of sexual freedom, and probably have no idea what it is or means, and why it is something that everyone should have. So many people may be wondering, what is sexual freedom exactly? What does it mean to be sexually free, and how does it work? And why is it something that everyone including you should have and how would it benefit you?
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The whole reason I created True Life Development was because I am awake and aware enough to see all of the problems with the world and with human nature, at least with modern man. The world is failing, and in many ways headed towards an apocalypse because of this. There are so many of social issues and personal issues we need to correct if we are going to better ourselves as a species and make the world a better place. This is why I created True Life Development – to help people to better themselves in order to enact widespread social change over time and make the world a better place for us all to live in.
But of course widespread social change all comes down to the individual and their own personal development. If you are not self actualized and living your dream life as your highest self, then you are no good to society. And since most people are not doing that, but rather are doing the opposite, living in poverty, illness, and degeneration, hence we have widespread social problems in this world.
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Dating With The Law of Attraction
To Get Your Ideal Mate
The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you think about and visualize getting. However in dating that is not often the case. You don’t attract who you want, or imagine yourself getting, or think you should get. You attract who you are. Because as the law of attraction states, “like attracts like”. And so you shouldn’t be dating unless you have as much or more to offer as you need to receive in a partner. Because if you are approaching dating from a standpoint of wanting/needing something(s) from someone else due to a feeling of lack from within yourself, and not having much to offer that person, you are not going to attract someone who will fulfill your needs, but rather someone who will similarly be looking for someone to take from in a vicious circle of vampirically using each other and causing a constant energy deficit in both people, like being stuck in an energy vacuum. This is why so many people end up in partnerships based upon taking from one another that is mutually diminishing rather than mutually fulfilling. But relationships should be about mutual fulfillment, growth and synergy together, not mutual diminishing each other. Luckily through The Law Of Attraction you can create that kind of synergy.
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