Archives
Introduction
It’s no secret that most men do not understand women very well, and thus they have very little idea about what they are doing when they try to get women. Even the men who are good looking themselves, or think they are good with women often actually are not, and will fail and get rejected time and time again because of the mistakes they make. For in fact ALL men have 10 common general mistakes that they make with women.
These 10 mistakes are so common because of a number of things: the way men are socially conditioned and made to think this is how they are supposed to act with women, a lack of understanding of women and thinking that what works on themselves should work on a woman, being taught the wrong things by parents and peers, which used to work or may work in theory but actually do not in the real world of today, and sometimes just having limiting mindsets. Unfortunately any time that even one of these common mistakes come up in an interaction with a woman it will kill all chemistry you had with her, all of attraction she had for you, and destroy any chances you had with her. For these are the things that most rejections are due to.
(more…)
Read more →
How To Have Amazing Sex By Combining Seduction And Sexual Escalation With Communication And Consent
Now I want to talk about a very important topic. How To Have Amazing Sex By Combining Seduction & Sexual Escalation With Communication and Consent! Which means how to escalate sexually into foreplay and sex with someone while also gaining their consent along the way so that you are only doing things that they want you to do with them (and in many cases making them want you to do the things you want to do to them through a seductive process). And communicating about them definitively to make sure that the sexual experience you are having with them is mutually agreed upon and pleasurable for you both. This will ensure you can have a good sexual experience together and that they will want to come back for more, rather than feel any kind of regret afterwards.
Read more →
For those who know anything about psychology you know that there are what are called “Personality Archetypes” which were first set forth by Carl Jung one of the pioneers of modern psychology, but now there are a lot of personality profiles that can tell you what your personality type is as well. When it comes to romantic relationships and how we relate to the opposite sex there are a specific set of personality archetypes for that and how we do so. These are especially exciting and illustrate the various personality traits and behavioral patterns people use for seduction and romance.
Read more →
The 25 Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships That You Most Commonly Hear In Society
-DEBUNKED!-
We’ve all heard it before. Floating around in society there are tons of bad ideas and advice and other messages about dating, love, sex and relationships that we get fed one way or another through our social conditioning. These may be told to you in a more or less direct manner by someone who knows you are in a relevant situation, or they may be more abstract ideas that are simply widely accepted by the consensus but not really spoken about explicitly. Either way, none of these ideas are talked about literally or in depth, because the more explicitly you speak about them, the more absurd they seem.
(more…)
Read more →
Have you ever noticed how people in society tend to congregate into different groups (social cliques) based on their personality types? And that each person tends to have a certain status in their group, and each group tends to have a certain status in society? This is because societies exist with a social structure called a “hierarchy”, also known as “classes” of people, from the most dominant high status leaders at the top, to the subordinate/submissive and average members in the middle, to the unpopular low level/status members at the bottom, and even some outliers.
This is not something that has been organized intentionally by government authorities and social engineering, this is simply the inherent way of the world and the natural order of us social animals. And where you fall into place and exist in the social hierarchy is entirely based upon your social personality type and what your natural place in your social environment is. So if you have ever been curious about sociology and the social structure of society and why things are the way that they are, or wondered about who you are socially and why your social life is the way it is, this article is going to explain exactly that to you. We will start at the top of the social hierarchy, and work our way to the bottom.
(more…)
Read more →
What It Means To Be Sexually Healthy
The Criteria Of Sexual Health
Most people in the world are not sexually healthy. Rather the opposite, most people do not have a healthy active sex life, and are sexually unfulfilled, repressed, and frustrated, and thus sexually unhealthy. This is due to the sexually oppressive cultures we all live in. But sexual health is an important and integral part of both physical and mental health. So without being sexually healthy one cannot be physically or mentally healthy. And one can also not have a happy fulfilling lifestyle, since sexual fulfillment is an integral and important part to general fulfillment and happiness in life.
Read more →
In the long tradition of courtship, there has been a tradition of drinking alcohol on dates. Having drinks has always been an integral part of dating for some reason. Most people when going out on dates, are for some reason going out just for drinks, or to a place where they will have drinks perhaps while doing something else, of not just sitting there drinking and talking. But not just any kind of drink, one that is intoxicating. It seems so natural and normal when you are doing it, yet when stated so plainly in this way it also seems very strange that people would consider sitting at a table having intoxicating beverages with each other and somehow view that as a romantic “date” and an important aspect of courtship. And no one seems to know exactly why they are doing this either, and are simply doing so because it is a common tradition. Do you know why people do this? What makes it a tradition?
Read more →
Many people have probably heard the phrase “Sexual Freedom” before, and not exactly know what it means. And many people may think that they have sexual freedom when in actuality they do not. We live in a very sexually oppressive and controlling culture in which most people are actually not sexually free, as they do not feel free to make their own choices sexually due to various social pressures. And thus most people are not sexually healthy or happy, and will even take on the social narratives of their oppression to make excuses for why they are not doing what they really want to, or even deny that they want what they want, and say that they want what they are told to want by society, when in fact they do not. I recently put out a video on my philosophy of the value of sexual freedom that you may have seen. But in such a culture of sexual oppression in which people have been so brainwashed with the narratives of sexual oppression most people are complete strangers to the idea of sexual freedom, and probably have no idea what it is or means, and why it is something that everyone should have. So many people may be wondering, what is sexual freedom exactly? What does it mean to be sexually free, and how does it work? And why is it something that everyone including you should have and how would it benefit you?
Read more →
I love it when people tell me I shouldn’t be doing or teaching something about sexuality because God says its wrong, not knowing that I am an ordained minister and know what I am talking about more than they do. Here is how many of these conversations go, and an actual conversation transcript that happened recently:
Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So what do you do?”
Me: “I am a Sexual Educator”
Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So are you teaching sex as God intended?”
Me: “I teach how to have a healthy fulfilling sex life, its up to people to apply it to their own preferences.”
Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So are you teaching that this should only happen between a married man and a woman?”
Read more →
Dating With The Law of Attraction
To Get Your Ideal Mate
The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you think about and visualize getting. However in dating that is not often the case. You don’t attract who you want, or imagine yourself getting, or think you should get. You attract who you are. Because as the law of attraction states, “like attracts like”. And so you shouldn’t be dating unless you have as much or more to offer as you need to receive in a partner. Because if you are approaching dating from a standpoint of wanting/needing something(s) from someone else due to a feeling of lack from within yourself, and not having much to offer that person, you are not going to attract someone who will fulfill your needs, but rather someone who will similarly be looking for someone to take from in a vicious circle of vampirically using each other and causing a constant energy deficit in both people, like being stuck in an energy vacuum. This is why so many people end up in partnerships based upon taking from one another that is mutually diminishing rather than mutually fulfilling. But relationships should be about mutual fulfillment, growth and synergy together, not mutual diminishing each other. Luckily through The Law Of Attraction you can create that kind of synergy.
Read more →
29 Types of Erotic Touch
For Maximizing Your Sexual Pleasure
Through Foreplay and Sensual Play
It is no secret that most people out there are not having the best sex that they can possibly have. This is because they are not being as sensually engaging as they can be in sex. It is a great complaint among women that men usually skip foreplay and then ejaculate too fast, and sex becomes a “wham bam thank you ma’am” kind of thing that produces little to no pleasure for the women, and minimal pleasure for the man as well. This is why most people have very boring monotonous sex lives that they are not satisfied with, and causes most sexual relationships to end at some point due to the couples sexual frustrations and how they can affect the whole relationship.
Read more →
What is “Love” Really?
The Complete Science Explained!
In this article I am going to be talking about and explaining the actual science of everyone’s favorite topic: LOVE!
Love is the biggest thing that everyone seeks after in life. That or something resembling love. It is one of the greatest human desires, and not only that but one of the greatest human needs. But why is that?
It’s not just because love feels better than anything else in this world (next to sex of course, which is a part of love). Its because of what is behind those good feelings and why exactly love feels so good. You see love is actually a function of evolutionary psychology that is very meaningful….but not in the ways that you think!
(more…)
Read more →
Everyone is so deluded about what sexuality really is. We’re fed so much propaganda through our social conditioning that no one understands its true essence. And most people in the world live in a sex negative culture that makes them feel ashamed of their sexuality and like sex is wrong unless it is experienced within the very specific container society has deemed ok… Men are taught by other men that sex should just be about fucking, women are taught by other women that sex should just be about love, religious people are taught by religious authorities that sex should be about marriage…when are we going to be allowed to experience our sexuality naturally and freely for what it really is?
Read more →
If you have been reading the articles and other content I have been posting on dating and relationships, you will have realized at some point that in order to do these things well they need to be done in connection with general personal development focus. All the time people tell me that they want to learn how to get more dates, more sexual partners, a girlfriend or boyfriend, or whatever the love life that they want is…but many of them do not want to work on themselves and making them a better person, and thus a more ideal mate for others. And that is exactly the reason why they are not getting the sexual partner(s) they want, and never will even with all the dating advice, secret seduction tactics and special sex moves and other tips and tricks I could possibly teach them. For having all the best seduction methods in the world will never make up for being a poor character at heart.
(more…)
Read more →
The Secret Social Science of Seduction Exposed
Now that you have learned how to create attraction and chemistry with someone you like, which we covered in the first article (and if you didn’t read it you can do so by clicking this link here now)…We are now going to get into part 2 on the science of seduction and the actual physical and sexual tactics for making sex happen with anyone you want to turn into your sex partner, whether you are on a date, hanging out as friends, working together, etc, just as long as you have already done what you learned in the first article on Attraction.
These moves are pretty badass and require a certain amount of sexual comfort and confidence necessary to really be proactive and physically dominant. But if you can have the right state of mind and go through these moves you will not only successfully engage in sexual play, but your date will become super horny for you and want you to take things even further.
Read more →
