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Here’s How To Overcome Social Anxiety

 

 

 

Social anxiety is a topic that has been on the rise for some time, and something that most people experience at some point in their lives, if not much more often than that.  Social anxiety is what happens to the brain when you are low on practice and the social centers of your brain aren’t getting enough activity so they start to shut down and it goes into an anti-social mode.  It is also what happens when we experience social traumas, that is, social experiences that do not cause us physical injury, but which the brain still wires in as trauma due to their potentially detrimental nature.  These experiences include harsh rejections, bullying, public humiliations, heart break, and being ostracized from a social group.  Basically being treated like the runt of a litter and having no social standing, or losing what social standing you once had, causes social anxiety.  This is because in ancient times when we lived in small social groups, this was basically a death sentence.  However today these experiences are not, they are simply an emotional hardship that we must sometimes endure.  And it is natural to experience social anxiety in certain times and situations, such as when you are trying to meet new people because your last social circle had been treating you poorly, or towards potential mates if your last one broke your heart.  And instead of going to a psychiatrist and getting prescribed some drug to make you feel better but not actually get better, this can actually be a growth experience that can lead to greater emotional strength, and social skills.

 
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Total Domination! The Inner Game Of Being A Dominant Man

Women want to be dominated.  They enjoy being submissive.  If you understand the nature of the yin and yang archetypes and energies, you know that the female archetype is yin, and the male archetype is yang.  Feminine polarity is receptive, passive, and submissive, masculine polarity is proactive, aggressive, and dominant.  It is the nature of the female spirit to be submissive to the dominant male spirit.  This is generally speaking of course and is true for most women, with the few exceptions of the women out there who prefer to be the sexually dominant one in their relationships, but they are the exception and not the rule.  Generally most (about 70%) of all women are submissive.  And while many men are not dominant, it is not because they are not dominant by nature, for masculinity is dominant by nature.  It is because they have been taught that it is improper to be too foreword or aggressive with women, and that if they do they will be seen as being “Creepy” or “perverted” etc.  However nothing could be further from the truth.

 

This is in fact the proper way for a man to behave when relating to women, if he wants them to be attracted to him and to be successful with them sexually.  Though many men have been made to be weak and timid with women by their social conditioning, and submissive and supplicating towards them by their mothers.  They have been taught to just be nice and not to be too proactive or assertive, and have even been made to feel insecure and ashamed of their sexuality, and do not have the confidence they need to succeed with women.  So you must shed this attitude and realize that men are naturally dominant, and that it is in fact what women want.   There is nothing wrong with being aggressive or dominant with women, they like it and want you to do it.  They just don’t want to have to tell you that, they want you to be the one to take the initiative to go for what you want, that is attractive.  And they want a good man to be able to submit to sexually to seduce them and give them pleasure.  Submission is something that women desire greatly and find a lot of gratification in.  Many women even consider male dominance necessary for their relationship to be satisfactory.  When you are dominantly seductive you are giving the woman a gift of pleasure.

 

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My Philosophy On Power Exchange In Relationships (BDSM Content)

It is no secret that most marriages these days are failing, and less relationships than ever are even making it to the point of marriage.  I have a theory on one of the main reasons why I believe that this is, which I believe is due to the lack of proper power exchange in relationships today.  Relationships are of course about two people being partners and thus sharing the power that they once had independently in their lives.  This can happen one of two ways, 1.) Through the parties both struggling to have the same power in the relationship, and 2.) Through the parties exchanging power in the relationship.  I have learned a lot about how to have a successful relationship through Power Exchange and Dominant & submissive roles in relationships over the past decade I have spent in the BDSM world.  And in this article I am going to share what I have learned and the theories I have developed on healthy successful relationships through this information, which I hope will help you be able to benefit by having them yourself.

 

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The 7 Levels Of Consciousness & Thought Processing That Need To Be In Alignment For You To Succeed

You may have heard before that there are a few different levels of consciousness, such as the unconscious, subconscious and conscious, or the Id, Ego and Superego.  But there are actually 7 more specific levels of consciousness pertaining to how your mind processes thought and information in order to make it part of your consciousness and mental reality.  These 7 are what I am going to teach you about in this article here today, and they are known as:

 

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WARNING! – These Types Of People Are Incapable Of Healthy Relationships (AVOID AT ALL COSTS!!)

The Types Of People Who Are

Incapable Of A Healthy Relationships:

The “Dark Triad” Person

 

 

 

 

Most people out there have been in unhealthy relationships before.  And oftentimes you found yourselves caught in these situations because your partner made you believe that they really cared about you, wanted to have a healthy relationship with you and were capable of one, and were willing to do what it took to make the relationship work, and that you could trust them in all of that.  But no matter how much they made you believe these things, the relationship never ended up being healthy.

 

 

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Are You Sexually Healthy? Take This Test To Find Out Before It’s Too Late! (OMG!)

What It Means To Be Sexually Healthy

The Criteria Of Sexual Health

 

 

 

 

 

Most people in the world are not sexually healthy.  Rather the opposite, most people do not have a healthy active sex life, and are sexually unfulfilled, repressed, and frustrated, and thus sexually unhealthy.  This is due to the sexually oppressive cultures we all live in.  But sexual health is an important and integral part of both physical and mental health. So without being sexually healthy one cannot be physically or mentally healthy.  And one can also not have a happy fulfilling lifestyle, since sexual fulfillment is an integral and important part to general fulfillment and happiness in life.

 

 

 

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The Dark Secret of Why Most People Are So Dis-empowered & How To Empower Yourself To Be Successful NOW!

 

 

 

 

Everyone has wants and needs in life, as well as things they do not want in life.  And people want to be able to get what they do want, and not what they do not want.  In fact being able to choose to get what you want and not what you don’t want is seen as one of the most fundamental inalienable human rights.

 

 

Why?  Because that freedom to choose what happens to you goes right along with the fundamentally important human quality that we believe makes us human beings and gives us our humanity.  What is that quality?

 

 

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The Dark Truth’s of Modern Man That No One Wants to Talk About Are Being Exposed Here!

The whole reason I created True Life Development was because I am awake and aware enough to see all of the problems with the world and with human nature, at least with modern man.  The world is failing, and in many ways headed towards an apocalypse because of this.  There are so many of social issues and personal issues we need to correct if we are going to better ourselves as a species and make the world a better place.  This is why I created True Life Development – to help people to better themselves in order to enact widespread social change over time and make the world a better place for us all to live in.

 

But of course widespread social change all comes down to the individual and their own personal development.  If you are not self actualized and living your dream life as your highest self, then you are no good to society.  And since most people are not doing that, but rather are doing the opposite, living in poverty, illness, and degeneration, hence we have widespread social problems in this world.

 

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How To Use The Law Of Attraction In Dating To Get The Love Life Of Your Dreams Revealed Here!

 

 

Dating With The Law of Attraction

To Get Your Ideal Mate

 

 

 

The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you think about and visualize getting.  However in dating that is not often the case.  You don’t attract who you want, or imagine yourself getting, or think you should get. You attract who you are.  Because as the law of attraction states, “like attracts like”.  And so you shouldn’t be dating unless you have as much or more to offer as you need to receive in a partner.  Because if you are approaching dating from a standpoint of wanting/needing something(s) from someone else due to a feeling of lack from within yourself, and not having much to offer that person, you are not going to attract someone who will fulfill your needs, but rather someone who will similarly be looking for someone to take from in a vicious circle of vampirically using each other and causing a constant energy deficit in both people, like being stuck in an energy vacuum.  This is why so many people end up in partnerships based upon taking from one another that is mutually diminishing rather than mutually fulfilling.  But relationships should be about mutual fulfillment, growth and synergy together, not mutual diminishing each other.  Luckily through The Law Of Attraction you can create that kind of synergy.

 

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What Is Shamanism? The Most Mind Blowing Subject Is Exposed In Full Here!

What Is Shamanism Really?

The Most Mind Boggling Subject Fully Exposed Here…

 

 

 

 

 

Shamanism – What It Is: The Basics

 

 

To many people the word shaman is a stereotype which conjures vague images of an archaic and crude form of earth based magician. Oftentimes this word has dark connotations, ones of black magic or things relating to the underworld. Oftentimes people feel as though it is a native American title that most directly translates to “medicine man” or “witch doctor,” and refers to someone known for eccentricity, schizophrenic fits and other wild behavior who speaks of spirits and the spiritual realm in misty, ambiguous metaphors and far out aphorisms that don’t really apply or make sense to the rational mind of the average well grounded person.

 

 

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Get The Life Of Your Dreams Through Purposeful Living and The Meaning Of Life (Logotherapy & Ontology)

 

 

 

Logotherapy & Ontology:

The Meaning Of Life & Purposeful Living

 

 

 

Many people these days do not have a great sense of self, life purpose, or meaning in their life.  Many are simply walking through life in a waking daze like zombies or robots.  You probably know a lot of people like that.  Perhaps even you yourself have been this way at times.  Is that how you want to live your life?

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