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Relationships Contracts – Everything You Need To Know About Successful Relationship Structure

What Are Relationships?

 

 

 

 

Relationships all begin for the same basic reason.  We have someone who we find agreeable enough that we find ourselves in accord with them on a number of things, and so we think to ourselves, “I like this person, I would like to sign up to spend more time with them.”  Sociologically speaking a relationship is simply a social construct in which two people are continuing to interact over a prolonged period of time. In other words, they continue to sign up to interact over time, and their mutual agreement to do so forms the basis of their relationship, and their series of interactions, forms their relationship itself.  Likewise relationships all end for the same basic reason.  People think to themselves “This isn’t’ what I signed up for, I do not agree to this.”  It may not be those exact words verbatim, but it will be some version of that, such as “I am not ok with this”, or “this doesn’t work for me”, or “I do not like this or want this anymore”, or “I did not know it was going to end up being like this, this isn’t what I wanted.”  But whatever the cause they either do not find the person/situation/relationship agreeable anymore, and/or did not know that it was going to be like this and that this is what they had inadvertently agreed to when they signed up for their relationship (which they would not have agreed to if they had known and wish they had known sooner).  So they exit their arrangement.

 

That is what a relationship is.  It is a social agreement, a verbal contract.  Something that you commit to and sign up for, with some sort of mutual understanding between the two of you that you are going to maintain this arrangement and things are going to be a certain way between you two.  However as the relationship ages and undergoes different situations and circumstances, different things come into play.  The relationship may have started out with a certain basic agreement, but that basic agreement will not have taken into consideration everything that could possibly come into play over the course of the time you are going to be together.  These things cause complications, because the partners never discussed them and what the agreement is supposed to be about them, and they may feel different ways about them.

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WARNING! – These Types Of People Are Incapable Of Healthy Relationships (AVOID AT ALL COSTS!!)

The Types Of People Who Are

Incapable Of A Healthy Relationships:

The “Dark Triad” Person

 

 

 

 

Most people out there have been in unhealthy relationships before.  And oftentimes you found yourselves caught in these situations because your partner made you believe that they really cared about you, wanted to have a healthy relationship with you and were capable of one, and were willing to do what it took to make the relationship work, and that you could trust them in all of that.  But no matter how much they made you believe these things, the relationship never ended up being healthy.

 

 

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What Is Sexual Freedom? What It Means To Be Sexually Free (& Why You Should Be)

 

 

Many people have probably heard the phrase “Sexual Freedom” before, and not exactly know what it means.  And many people may think that they have sexual freedom when in actuality they do not.  We live in a very sexually oppressive and controlling culture in which most people are actually not sexually free, as they do not feel free to make their own choices sexually due to various social pressures.  And thus most people are not sexually healthy or happy, and will even take on the social narratives of their oppression to make excuses for why they are not doing what they really want to, or even deny that they want what they want, and say that they want what they are told to want by society, when in fact they do not.  I recently put out a video on my philosophy of the value of sexual freedom that you may have seen.  But in such a culture of sexual oppression in which people have been so brainwashed with the narratives of sexual oppression most people are complete strangers to the idea of sexual freedom, and probably have no idea what it is or means, and why it is something that everyone should have.  So many people may be wondering, what is sexual freedom exactly? What does it mean to be sexually free, and how does it work?  And why is it something that everyone including you should have and how would it benefit you?

 

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