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Socialite Manners 101 – The Unwritten (But Now Written) Rules Of Being A Successful Socialite

Over the course of my life I have noticed that there are a successful socialite person who is welcomed everywhere they go and able to make friends with just about anyone.  These rules are taught from childhood by high society or socialite parents, and sometimes by higher status individuals to lower status individuals when inviting them to social functions, or sometimes teachers or friends, but without having one of these people in your life to teach you how to function socially in situations where your manners really matter, you are bound to do something rude or offensive, or that shows low status or that you do not know how to function socially in these types of situations and probably do not get invited to many social functions of their nature.  Thus showing bad social manners at any type of social function will most always cause you to not get invited to any like them in the future. This makes you socially unsuccessful and thus you will have low social status.

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The Dark Secret of Why Most People Are So Dis-empowered & How To Empower Yourself To Be Successful NOW!

 

 

 

 

Everyone has wants and needs in life, as well as things they do not want in life.  And people want to be able to get what they do want, and not what they do not want.  In fact being able to choose to get what you want and not what you don’t want is seen as one of the most fundamental inalienable human rights.

 

 

Why?  Because that freedom to choose what happens to you goes right along with the fundamentally important human quality that we believe makes us human beings and gives us our humanity.  What is that quality?

 

 

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The Dark Truth’s of Modern Man That No One Wants to Talk About Are Being Exposed Here!

The whole reason I created True Life Development was because I am awake and aware enough to see all of the problems with the world and with human nature, at least with modern man.  The world is failing, and in many ways headed towards an apocalypse because of this.  There are so many of social issues and personal issues we need to correct if we are going to better ourselves as a species and make the world a better place.  This is why I created True Life Development – to help people to better themselves in order to enact widespread social change over time and make the world a better place for us all to live in.

 

But of course widespread social change all comes down to the individual and their own personal development.  If you are not self actualized and living your dream life as your highest self, then you are no good to society.  And since most people are not doing that, but rather are doing the opposite, living in poverty, illness, and degeneration, hence we have widespread social problems in this world.

 

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Get The Life Of Your Dreams Through Purposeful Living and The Meaning Of Life (Logotherapy & Ontology)

 

 

 

Logotherapy & Ontology:

The Meaning Of Life & Purposeful Living

 

 

 

Many people these days do not have a great sense of self, life purpose, or meaning in their life.  Many are simply walking through life in a waking daze like zombies or robots.  You probably know a lot of people like that.  Perhaps even you yourself have been this way at times.  Is that how you want to live your life?

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You Are A Product Of Your Environment…And Your Environment Is A Product Of You!

 

 

 

You Are A Product Of Your Environment
And Your Environment Is A Product Of You

My Experience With Nature Vs. Nurture

 

 

I grew up in the country, a very small town on the outskirts of the city of Rochester NY about 40 minutes away from downtown, and 20 minutes away from the nearest grocery store. It had a lot of nature and that was great for many reasons, but it was also very desolate. My mother was very sheltering and isolated me from most other kids I wanted to play with. She was also very oppressive and wanted to indoctrinate me in her own ways and prevent me from associating with anyone she didn’t approve of, and she didn’t approve of most people. This conditioned me with a lot of social anxiety and depression, as well as other social issues. In fact as I would come to find out my mother was a sociopath, and really enjoyed causing psychological issues in me that she could then despair about and blame on things such as the divorce and my father and popular culture, and then force me into therapy that I did not want or need.  For a while I was very unpopular in school, but I was not a stupid kid and was able to figure out what it took to become popular and get in with the popular crowd. However even as a teenager she would not let me hang out with other kids outside of school without first talking to their parents as if I was a child and she needed to arrange “play dates”. Thus I had to become very rebellious and independent and learned to just do what I want and find my own way.

 

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Is It Right To Be Wrong? Read This To Have Your Mind Blown!

 

How Wrong is it to be Wrong?

 

Many people are afraid of ever admitting that they are wrong.   They feel like it is wrong to be wrong, and better to just be right all the time.  And even if they are not actually right, they feel it is better to assure others that they are.  This comes from a place of ego and not wanting to admit than you had done something less intelligent than you thought.  However admitting you are wrong and correcting yourself actually seems more intelligent.  And if you look at history, you will see a lot of very large examples of highly intelligent people who did great things but also did great things wrong and should have realized they were wrong sooner when they could have done things greater.

 

 

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Fitness Is Not Just About The Body, It’s About The Mind Too!

 

 

Emotions and Psychology in Athletics/Fitness (and Injuries)

 

 

Two weeks ago I sprained my ankle doing parkour, which was very painful, and set me back in my practice of it. It has been a rough experience mentally over these past 2 weeks since doing my parkour workouts has really been a large part of my lifestyle, and my personal identity. I has really made me realize just how much being an athlete is mental as well as physical, which is one of the reasons I chose parkour as my new sport in the first place. But I had not realized just how much emotion played into these things, as sometimes your mind and sense of self esteem is really put to the test in athletics, when facing failure and injury.

 

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The Secrets Of How to Get to The Top in Society! Social & Business Networking Explained!

 

Many people who are lacking in the success they want to have are in this place because of their lack of connections, and having a limited social circle and business network, both in quantity and quality.

 

It is no secret anymore that success is not about what you do, but who you know. After all, when a big business owner is choosing executives and board members for his or her company, do you think they accept applications for these positions? Or go with people they know?

 

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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT FAQ! ALL YOUR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT QUESTIONS ANSWERED HERE!

So I am constantly coming upon people who have the same questions in personal development, or oftentimes they are not even questions, but ignorant thoughts that would be better phrased as questions so that they could become more enlightened.  So I decided to do a FAQ for all of the common introductory personal development issues out there that someone might have coming into this self improvement work, for anyone thinking about starting this great journey of self actualization.

 

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