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Total Domination! The Inner Game Of Being A Dominant Man

Women want to be dominated.  They enjoy being submissive.  If you understand the nature of the yin and yang archetypes and energies, you know that the female archetype is yin, and the male archetype is yang.  Feminine polarity is receptive, passive, and submissive, masculine polarity is proactive, aggressive, and dominant.  It is the nature of the female spirit to be submissive to the dominant male spirit.  This is generally speaking of course and is true for most women, with the few exceptions of the women out there who prefer to be the sexually dominant one in their relationships, but they are the exception and not the rule.  Generally most (about 70%) of all women are submissive.  And while many men are not dominant, it is not because they are not dominant by nature, for masculinity is dominant by nature.  It is because they have been taught that it is improper to be too foreword or aggressive with women, and that if they do they will be seen as being “Creepy” or “perverted” etc.  However nothing could be further from the truth.

 

This is in fact the proper way for a man to behave when relating to women, if he wants them to be attracted to him and to be successful with them sexually.  Though many men have been made to be weak and timid with women by their social conditioning, and submissive and supplicating towards them by their mothers.  They have been taught to just be nice and not to be too proactive or assertive, and have even been made to feel insecure and ashamed of their sexuality, and do not have the confidence they need to succeed with women.  So you must shed this attitude and realize that men are naturally dominant, and that it is in fact what women want.   There is nothing wrong with being aggressive or dominant with women, they like it and want you to do it.  They just don’t want to have to tell you that, they want you to be the one to take the initiative to go for what you want, that is attractive.  And they want a good man to be able to submit to sexually to seduce them and give them pleasure.  Submission is something that women desire greatly and find a lot of gratification in.  Many women even consider male dominance necessary for their relationship to be satisfactory.  When you are dominantly seductive you are giving the woman a gift of pleasure.

 

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Relationships Contracts – Everything You Need To Know About Successful Relationship Structure

What Are Relationships?

 

 

 

 

Relationships all begin for the same basic reason.  We have someone who we find agreeable enough that we find ourselves in accord with them on a number of things, and so we think to ourselves, “I like this person, I would like to sign up to spend more time with them.”  Sociologically speaking a relationship is simply a social construct in which two people are continuing to interact over a prolonged period of time. In other words, they continue to sign up to interact over time, and their mutual agreement to do so forms the basis of their relationship, and their series of interactions, forms their relationship itself.  Likewise relationships all end for the same basic reason.  People think to themselves “This isn’t’ what I signed up for, I do not agree to this.”  It may not be those exact words verbatim, but it will be some version of that, such as “I am not ok with this”, or “this doesn’t work for me”, or “I do not like this or want this anymore”, or “I did not know it was going to end up being like this, this isn’t what I wanted.”  But whatever the cause they either do not find the person/situation/relationship agreeable anymore, and/or did not know that it was going to be like this and that this is what they had inadvertently agreed to when they signed up for their relationship (which they would not have agreed to if they had known and wish they had known sooner).  So they exit their arrangement.

 

That is what a relationship is.  It is a social agreement, a verbal contract.  Something that you commit to and sign up for, with some sort of mutual understanding between the two of you that you are going to maintain this arrangement and things are going to be a certain way between you two.  However as the relationship ages and undergoes different situations and circumstances, different things come into play.  The relationship may have started out with a certain basic agreement, but that basic agreement will not have taken into consideration everything that could possibly come into play over the course of the time you are going to be together.  These things cause complications, because the partners never discussed them and what the agreement is supposed to be about them, and they may feel different ways about them.

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My Philosophy On Power Exchange In Relationships (BDSM Content)

It is no secret that most marriages these days are failing, and less relationships than ever are even making it to the point of marriage.  I have a theory on one of the main reasons why I believe that this is, which I believe is due to the lack of proper power exchange in relationships today.  Relationships are of course about two people being partners and thus sharing the power that they once had independently in their lives.  This can happen one of two ways, 1.) Through the parties both struggling to have the same power in the relationship, and 2.) Through the parties exchanging power in the relationship.  I have learned a lot about how to have a successful relationship through Power Exchange and Dominant & submissive roles in relationships over the past decade I have spent in the BDSM world.  And in this article I am going to share what I have learned and the theories I have developed on healthy successful relationships through this information, which I hope will help you be able to benefit by having them yourself.

 

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10 Big Mistakes All Men Make That Kill Chemistry and Destroy Your Chances With Women And How To Fix Them!

 

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It’s no secret that most men do not understand women very well, and thus they have very little idea about what they are doing when they try to get women.  Even the men who are good looking themselves, or think they are good with women often actually are not, and will fail and get rejected time and time again because of the mistakes they make.  For in fact ALL men have 10 common general mistakes that they make with women.

 

These 10 mistakes are so common because of a number of things: the way men are socially conditioned and made to think this is how they are supposed to act with women, a lack of understanding of women and thinking that what works on themselves should work on a woman, being taught the wrong things by parents and peers, which used to work or may work in theory but actually do not in the real world of today, and sometimes just having limiting mindsets.  Unfortunately any time that even one of these common mistakes come up in an interaction with a woman it will kill all chemistry you had with her, all of attraction she had for you, and destroy any chances you had with her.  For these are the things that most rejections are due to.

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The Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships (FUNNY!)

The 25 Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships That You Most Commonly Hear In Society

-DEBUNKED!-

 

 

We’ve all heard it before.  Floating around in society there are tons of bad ideas and advice and other messages about dating, love, sex and relationships that we get fed one way or another through our social conditioning.  These may be told to you in a more or less direct manner by someone who knows you are in a relevant situation, or they may be more abstract ideas that are simply widely accepted by the consensus but not really spoken about explicitly.  Either way, none of these ideas are talked about literally or in depth, because the more explicitly you speak about them, the more absurd they seem.

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Are You Sexually Healthy? Take This Test To Find Out Before It’s Too Late! (OMG!)

What It Means To Be Sexually Healthy

The Criteria Of Sexual Health

 

 

 

 

 

Most people in the world are not sexually healthy.  Rather the opposite, most people do not have a healthy active sex life, and are sexually unfulfilled, repressed, and frustrated, and thus sexually unhealthy.  This is due to the sexually oppressive cultures we all live in.  But sexual health is an important and integral part of both physical and mental health. So without being sexually healthy one cannot be physically or mentally healthy.  And one can also not have a happy fulfilling lifestyle, since sexual fulfillment is an integral and important part to general fulfillment and happiness in life.

 

 

 

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Dates & Drinks – The Toxic Relationship Between Alcohol & Dating Explored Here (MUST SEE!)

 

In the long tradition of courtship, there has been a tradition of drinking alcohol on dates.  Having drinks has always been an integral part of dating for some reason.  Most people when going out on dates, are for some reason going out just for drinks, or to a place where they will have drinks perhaps while doing something else, of not just sitting there drinking and talking.  But not just any kind of drink, one that is intoxicating.  It seems so natural and normal when you are doing it, yet when stated so plainly in this way it also seems very strange that people would consider sitting at a table having intoxicating beverages with each other and somehow view that as a romantic “date” and an important aspect of courtship.  And no one seems to know exactly why they are doing this either, and are simply doing so because it is a common tradition.  Do you know why people do this?  What makes it a tradition?

 

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What Is Sexual Freedom? What It Means To Be Sexually Free (& Why You Should Be)

 

 

Many people have probably heard the phrase “Sexual Freedom” before, and not exactly know what it means.  And many people may think that they have sexual freedom when in actuality they do not.  We live in a very sexually oppressive and controlling culture in which most people are actually not sexually free, as they do not feel free to make their own choices sexually due to various social pressures.  And thus most people are not sexually healthy or happy, and will even take on the social narratives of their oppression to make excuses for why they are not doing what they really want to, or even deny that they want what they want, and say that they want what they are told to want by society, when in fact they do not.  I recently put out a video on my philosophy of the value of sexual freedom that you may have seen.  But in such a culture of sexual oppression in which people have been so brainwashed with the narratives of sexual oppression most people are complete strangers to the idea of sexual freedom, and probably have no idea what it is or means, and why it is something that everyone should have.  So many people may be wondering, what is sexual freedom exactly? What does it mean to be sexually free, and how does it work?  And why is it something that everyone including you should have and how would it benefit you?

 

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The Controversial Truth About Christian Sexuality That Most Pastors Don’t Want You To Know Revealed Here!


 

 

I love it when people tell me I shouldn’t be doing or teaching something about sexuality because God says its wrong, not knowing that I am an ordained minister and know what I am talking about more than they do. Here is how many of these conversations go, and an actual conversation transcript that happened recently:

 

Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So what do you do?”

 

Me: “I am a Sexual Educator”

 

Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So are you teaching sex as God intended?”

 

Me: “I teach how to have a healthy fulfilling sex life, its up to people to apply it to their own preferences.”

 

Supposed Christian trying to tell me my business: “So are you teaching that this should only happen between a married man and a woman?”

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What Does It Mean To Be A Couple & What Are Relationships Really All About?

 

 

What Is Being A Couple Really About?  Let’s explore the Definition of Romantic Relationships a little here.
I hear from way too many women in committed relationships, even marriages, that they are not being sexually fulfilled by their partners, and sometimes their sexual needs are totally being neglected, or they barely have sex at all. And see too many men cheating, and even have married women propositioning me for sex, some of whom have never even been given an orgasm by their husbands. And I can’t help but think why are you in a committed sexual partnership with someone who is not actually your sexual partner?

 

 

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29 Types of Erotic Touch for Maximizing Your Sensual Pleasure More Than Ever! (OMG)

 

 

29 Types of Erotic Touch

For Maximizing Your Sexual Pleasure

Through Foreplay and Sensual Play

 

 

It is no secret that most people out there are not having the best sex that they can possibly have.  This is because they are not being as sensually engaging as they can be in sex.  It is a great complaint among women that men usually skip foreplay and then ejaculate too fast, and sex becomes a “wham bam thank you ma’am” kind of thing that produces little to no pleasure for the women, and minimal pleasure for the man as well.  This is why most people have very boring monotonous sex lives that they are not satisfied with, and causes most sexual relationships to end at some point due to the couples sexual frustrations and how they can affect the whole relationship.

 

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