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An Exposé of The Paradigm of Sexism & Double Standards Against Men In The Gynocentric Socio-Political World

 

 

 

Introduction to Gynocentrism

And Misandry (Sexism Against Men)

 

 

I was raised by a first wave feminist and taught about equality and women’s rights growing up.  That was decades ago though, back when men and women could get along.  Over the last decade I have watched feminism come to dominate the political and social worlds, even the world of social media, the dating world, the sex ed world, and other niche communities, such as the online dating industry, the porn industry, and the Kink/BDSM world, and basically any social community or industry where male/female sexual dynamics are the focus.  This has made the social world at large a gynocentric culture which caters to women at the expense of men.  Since the third and fourth waves of feminism have emerged (which are more about women winning the battle of the sexes than equality,) there has been a growing trend of women who feel a need to emasculate men and make men feel like less of a man.  This is most commonly and done with the phrase we are all too familiar with of “you are not a real man”.  We have all heard this phrase used to such an extent that it has become cliché. There is no good reason for it, and they only do this in order to coerce a man to try to behave the way they want, by attaching his sense of identity as a man to the behavior they want him to exhibit, and a break down of said identity to his non-conformity.  This is similar to gas lighting and is an incredibly toxic sociopathic thing to do to someone. But women these days seem to love emasculating men because it not only is a great form of ammunition they can use to try to get the man to conform to their wishes, but it makes them feel powerful.  This a very dark trait that is ironic because it is most often done by women who have a feminist “girl power” attitude, but yet they are completely ignoring the fact that this is actually an extremely and extraordinarily sexist thing to say to someone.  This is so far beyond any form of sexism that feminism has rebelled against.

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Total Domination! The Inner Game Of Being A Dominant Man

Women want to be dominated.  They enjoy being submissive.  If you understand the nature of the yin and yang archetypes and energies, you know that the female archetype is yin, and the male archetype is yang.  Feminine polarity is receptive, passive, and submissive, masculine polarity is proactive, aggressive, and dominant.  It is the nature of the female spirit to be submissive to the dominant male spirit.  This is generally speaking of course and is true for most women, with the few exceptions of the women out there who prefer to be the sexually dominant one in their relationships, but they are the exception and not the rule.  Generally most (about 70%) of all women are submissive.  And while many men are not dominant, it is not because they are not dominant by nature, for masculinity is dominant by nature.  It is because they have been taught that it is improper to be too foreword or aggressive with women, and that if they do they will be seen as being “Creepy” or “perverted” etc.  However nothing could be further from the truth.

 

This is in fact the proper way for a man to behave when relating to women, if he wants them to be attracted to him and to be successful with them sexually.  Though many men have been made to be weak and timid with women by their social conditioning, and submissive and supplicating towards them by their mothers.  They have been taught to just be nice and not to be too proactive or assertive, and have even been made to feel insecure and ashamed of their sexuality, and do not have the confidence they need to succeed with women.  So you must shed this attitude and realize that men are naturally dominant, and that it is in fact what women want.   There is nothing wrong with being aggressive or dominant with women, they like it and want you to do it.  They just don’t want to have to tell you that, they want you to be the one to take the initiative to go for what you want, that is attractive.  And they want a good man to be able to submit to sexually to seduce them and give them pleasure.  Submission is something that women desire greatly and find a lot of gratification in.  Many women even consider male dominance necessary for their relationship to be satisfactory.  When you are dominantly seductive you are giving the woman a gift of pleasure.

 

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My Philosophy On Power Exchange In Relationships (BDSM Content)

It is no secret that most marriages these days are failing, and less relationships than ever are even making it to the point of marriage.  I have a theory on one of the main reasons why I believe that this is, which I believe is due to the lack of proper power exchange in relationships today.  Relationships are of course about two people being partners and thus sharing the power that they once had independently in their lives.  This can happen one of two ways, 1.) Through the parties both struggling to have the same power in the relationship, and 2.) Through the parties exchanging power in the relationship.  I have learned a lot about how to have a successful relationship through Power Exchange and Dominant & submissive roles in relationships over the past decade I have spent in the BDSM world.  And in this article I am going to share what I have learned and the theories I have developed on healthy successful relationships through this information, which I hope will help you be able to benefit by having them yourself.

 

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The 7 Levels Of Consciousness & Thought Processing That Need To Be In Alignment For You To Succeed

You may have heard before that there are a few different levels of consciousness, such as the unconscious, subconscious and conscious, or the Id, Ego and Superego.  But there are actually 7 more specific levels of consciousness pertaining to how your mind processes thought and information in order to make it part of your consciousness and mental reality.  These 7 are what I am going to teach you about in this article here today, and they are known as:

 

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The Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships (FUNNY!)

The 25 Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships That You Most Commonly Hear In Society

-DEBUNKED!-

 

 

We’ve all heard it before.  Floating around in society there are tons of bad ideas and advice and other messages about dating, love, sex and relationships that we get fed one way or another through our social conditioning.  These may be told to you in a more or less direct manner by someone who knows you are in a relevant situation, or they may be more abstract ideas that are simply widely accepted by the consensus but not really spoken about explicitly.  Either way, none of these ideas are talked about literally or in depth, because the more explicitly you speak about them, the more absurd they seem.

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WARNING! – These Types Of People Are Incapable Of Healthy Relationships (AVOID AT ALL COSTS!!)

The Types Of People Who Are

Incapable Of A Healthy Relationships:

The “Dark Triad” Person

 

 

 

 

Most people out there have been in unhealthy relationships before.  And oftentimes you found yourselves caught in these situations because your partner made you believe that they really cared about you, wanted to have a healthy relationship with you and were capable of one, and were willing to do what it took to make the relationship work, and that you could trust them in all of that.  But no matter how much they made you believe these things, the relationship never ended up being healthy.

 

 

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Are You Sexually Healthy? Take This Test To Find Out Before It’s Too Late! (OMG!)

What It Means To Be Sexually Healthy

The Criteria Of Sexual Health

 

 

 

 

 

Most people in the world are not sexually healthy.  Rather the opposite, most people do not have a healthy active sex life, and are sexually unfulfilled, repressed, and frustrated, and thus sexually unhealthy.  This is due to the sexually oppressive cultures we all live in.  But sexual health is an important and integral part of both physical and mental health. So without being sexually healthy one cannot be physically or mentally healthy.  And one can also not have a happy fulfilling lifestyle, since sexual fulfillment is an integral and important part to general fulfillment and happiness in life.

 

 

 

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Dates & Drinks – The Toxic Relationship Between Alcohol & Dating Explored Here (MUST SEE!)

 

In the long tradition of courtship, there has been a tradition of drinking alcohol on dates.  Having drinks has always been an integral part of dating for some reason.  Most people when going out on dates, are for some reason going out just for drinks, or to a place where they will have drinks perhaps while doing something else, of not just sitting there drinking and talking.  But not just any kind of drink, one that is intoxicating.  It seems so natural and normal when you are doing it, yet when stated so plainly in this way it also seems very strange that people would consider sitting at a table having intoxicating beverages with each other and somehow view that as a romantic “date” and an important aspect of courtship.  And no one seems to know exactly why they are doing this either, and are simply doing so because it is a common tradition.  Do you know why people do this?  What makes it a tradition?

 

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The Step By Step Buddhist Map To Enlightenment Revealed!

 

 

 

Enlightenment is seen as the spiritual goal of most all religions. The attainment of the highest spiritual state of being and consciousness. Having your consciousness completely illuminated with light, so that you can see and know everything. Having a rapturous state of consciousness that is like that of god, or what is known as “The Godhead”. Of having divine knowledge, and divine bliss, and blessings, and the ability to share that with others here on earth.

 

 

Luckily in Buddhism they have devised what I like to call an entire “Map To Enlightenment” that teaches you exactly how to make your way up the mountain, step by step on your spiritual path of attainment.

 

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The Dark Secret of Why Most People Are So Dis-empowered & How To Empower Yourself To Be Successful NOW!

 

 

 

 

Everyone has wants and needs in life, as well as things they do not want in life.  And people want to be able to get what they do want, and not what they do not want.  In fact being able to choose to get what you want and not what you don’t want is seen as one of the most fundamental inalienable human rights.

 

 

Why?  Because that freedom to choose what happens to you goes right along with the fundamentally important human quality that we believe makes us human beings and gives us our humanity.  What is that quality?

 

 

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Is Pleasure Spiritually Meaningful? – The Secret Spiritual Philosophy of Hedonism Revealed!

The Spiritual Merit Of Pleasure & Hedonism

What Is “Spiritual Hedonism?”

 

 

 

 

Is hedonism spiritual?  Could a pleasure centric lifestyle actually have spiritual value, and not be as “wrong” and “immoral” as Christianity says?
Well let’s explore the philosophical world of spiritual hedonism and see what hedonism really means spiritually to those who are not rigid Christians who wish to never enjoy the pleasures of life.
Luckily, these are not very complicated topics, so we can keep it simple.
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