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Social anxiety is a topic that has been on the rise for some time, and something that most people experience at some point in their lives, if not much more often than that. Social anxiety is what happens to the brain when you are low on practice and the social centers of your brain aren’t getting enough activity so they start to shut down and it goes into an anti-social mode. It is also what happens when we experience social traumas, that is, social experiences that do not cause us physical injury, but which the brain still wires in as trauma due to their potentially detrimental nature. These experiences include harsh rejections, bullying, public humiliations, heart break, and being ostracized from a social group. Basically being treated like the runt of a litter and having no social standing, or losing what social standing you once had, causes social anxiety. This is because in ancient times when we lived in small social groups, this was basically a death sentence. However today these experiences are not, they are simply an emotional hardship that we must sometimes endure. And it is natural to experience social anxiety in certain times and situations, such as when you are trying to meet new people because your last social circle had been treating you poorly, or towards potential mates if your last one broke your heart. And instead of going to a psychiatrist and getting prescribed some drug to make you feel better but not actually get better, this can actually be a growth experience that can lead to greater emotional strength, and social skills.
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Introduction to Gynocentrism
And Misandry (Sexism Against Men)
I was raised by a first wave feminist and taught about equality and women’s rights growing up. That was decades ago though, back when men and women could get along. Over the last decade I have watched feminism come to dominate the political and social worlds, even the world of social media, the dating world, the sex ed world, and other niche communities, such as the online dating industry, the porn industry, and the Kink/BDSM world, and basically any social community or industry where male/female sexual dynamics are the focus. This has made the social world at large a gynocentric culture which caters to women at the expense of men. Since the third and fourth waves of feminism have emerged (which are more about women winning the battle of the sexes than equality,) there has been a growing trend of women who feel a need to emasculate men and make men feel like less of a man. This is most commonly and done with the phrase we are all too familiar with of “you are not a real man”. We have all heard this phrase used to such an extent that it has become cliché. There is no good reason for it, and they only do this in order to coerce a man to try to behave the way they want, by attaching his sense of identity as a man to the behavior they want him to exhibit, and a break down of said identity to his non-conformity. This is similar to gas lighting and is an incredibly toxic sociopathic thing to do to someone. But women these days seem to love emasculating men because it not only is a great form of ammunition they can use to try to get the man to conform to their wishes, but it makes them feel powerful. This a very dark trait that is ironic because it is most often done by women who have a feminist “girl power” attitude, but yet they are completely ignoring the fact that this is actually an extremely and extraordinarily sexist thing to say to someone. This is so far beyond any form of sexism that feminism has rebelled against.
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263Women want to be dominated. They enjoy being submissive. If you understand the nature of the yin and yang archetypes and energies, you know that the female archetype is yin, and the male archetype is yang. Feminine polarity is receptive, passive, and submissive, masculine polarity is proactive, aggressive, and dominant. It is the nature of the female spirit to be submissive to the dominant male spirit. This is generally speaking of course and is true for most women, with the few exceptions of the women out there who prefer to be the sexually dominant one in their relationships, but they are the exception and not the rule. Generally most (about 70%) of all women are submissive. And while many men are not dominant, it is not because they are not dominant by nature, for masculinity is dominant by nature. It is because they have been taught that it is improper to be too foreword or aggressive with women, and that if they do they will be seen as being “Creepy” or “perverted” etc. However nothing could be further from the truth.
This is in fact the proper way for a man to behave when relating to women, if he wants them to be attracted to him and to be successful with them sexually. Though many men have been made to be weak and timid with women by their social conditioning, and submissive and supplicating towards them by their mothers. They have been taught to just be nice and not to be too proactive or assertive, and have even been made to feel insecure and ashamed of their sexuality, and do not have the confidence they need to succeed with women. So you must shed this attitude and realize that men are naturally dominant, and that it is in fact what women want. There is nothing wrong with being aggressive or dominant with women, they like it and want you to do it. They just don’t want to have to tell you that, they want you to be the one to take the initiative to go for what you want, that is attractive. And they want a good man to be able to submit to sexually to seduce them and give them pleasure. Submission is something that women desire greatly and find a lot of gratification in. Many women even consider male dominance necessary for their relationship to be satisfactory. When you are dominantly seductive you are giving the woman a gift of pleasure.
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263One thing that really pains me as someone who educates people about dating and relationships is when I see all the bad advice out there that is given to women. Most women get the worst advice from friends and family who aren’t experts and are just saying things that they think sound good, and even from dating coaches which really only tell women what they want to hear because they know they will make more money doing so. The truth is that this information they are getting is hurting them, not helping them. Because of that more women are single than ever before and this is largely due to all of the misinformation they get about dating and how to get into a good relationship with a quality man. This is in part due to the fact that they would rather be listening to advice that sounds nice or tells them things that they want to hear rather than advice that is true and practical and works. But eventually I suppose any of these women will have to get frustrated enough to want to actually face the facts and learn the truth about what they actually need to know and what will work. And that is what I am going to give you here. As a man, who can assure you from talking to thousands of other men over the years that these are the 30 things definitive things that will make or break a relationship with a man. And coincidentally these are the 30 main things that most women are doing totally wrong in dating and I’m sure are the main causes of them not being able to get or keep a quality guy. So here to make sure you now can, I give you the 30 do’s and don’t’s of how to get and keep a quality man.

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263What Are Relationships?

Relationships all begin for the same basic reason. We have someone who we find agreeable enough that we find ourselves in accord with them on a number of things, and so we think to ourselves, “I like this person, I would like to sign up to spend more time with them.” Sociologically speaking a relationship is simply a social construct in which two people are continuing to interact over a prolonged period of time. In other words, they continue to sign up to interact over time, and their mutual agreement to do so forms the basis of their relationship, and their series of interactions, forms their relationship itself. Likewise relationships all end for the same basic reason. People think to themselves “This isn’t’ what I signed up for, I do not agree to this.” It may not be those exact words verbatim, but it will be some version of that, such as “I am not ok with this”, or “this doesn’t work for me”, or “I do not like this or want this anymore”, or “I did not know it was going to end up being like this, this isn’t what I wanted.” But whatever the cause they either do not find the person/situation/relationship agreeable anymore, and/or did not know that it was going to be like this and that this is what they had inadvertently agreed to when they signed up for their relationship (which they would not have agreed to if they had known and wish they had known sooner). So they exit their arrangement.
That is what a relationship is. It is a social agreement, a verbal contract. Something that you commit to and sign up for, with some sort of mutual understanding between the two of you that you are going to maintain this arrangement and things are going to be a certain way between you two. However as the relationship ages and undergoes different situations and circumstances, different things come into play. The relationship may have started out with a certain basic agreement, but that basic agreement will not have taken into consideration everything that could possibly come into play over the course of the time you are going to be together. These things cause complications, because the partners never discussed them and what the agreement is supposed to be about them, and they may feel different ways about them.
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Introduction
It’s no secret that most men do not understand women very well, and thus they have very little idea about what they are doing when they try to get women. Even the men who are good looking themselves, or think they are good with women often actually are not, and will fail and get rejected time and time again because of the mistakes they make. For in fact ALL men have 10 common general mistakes that they make with women.
These 10 mistakes are so common because of a number of things: the way men are socially conditioned and made to think this is how they are supposed to act with women, a lack of understanding of women and thinking that what works on themselves should work on a woman, being taught the wrong things by parents and peers, which used to work or may work in theory but actually do not in the real world of today, and sometimes just having limiting mindsets. Unfortunately any time that even one of these common mistakes come up in an interaction with a woman it will kill all chemistry you had with her, all of attraction she had for you, and destroy any chances you had with her. For these are the things that most rejections are due to.
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For those who know anything about psychology you know that there are what are called “Personality Archetypes” which were first set forth by Carl Jung one of the pioneers of modern psychology, but now there are a lot of personality profiles that can tell you what your personality type is as well. When it comes to romantic relationships and how we relate to the opposite sex there are a specific set of personality archetypes for that and how we do so. These are especially exciting and illustrate the various personality traits and behavioral patterns people use for seduction and romance.
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263The 25 Worst Ideas & Advice About Dating, Love, Sex & Relationships That You Most Commonly Hear In Society
-DEBUNKED!-

We’ve all heard it before. Floating around in society there are tons of bad ideas and advice and other messages about dating, love, sex and relationships that we get fed one way or another through our social conditioning. These may be told to you in a more or less direct manner by someone who knows you are in a relevant situation, or they may be more abstract ideas that are simply widely accepted by the consensus but not really spoken about explicitly. Either way, none of these ideas are talked about literally or in depth, because the more explicitly you speak about them, the more absurd they seem.
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263The Types Of People Who Are
Incapable Of A Healthy Relationships:
The “Dark Triad” Person

Most people out there have been in unhealthy relationships before. And oftentimes you found yourselves caught in these situations because your partner made you believe that they really cared about you, wanted to have a healthy relationship with you and were capable of one, and were willing to do what it took to make the relationship work, and that you could trust them in all of that. But no matter how much they made you believe these things, the relationship never ended up being healthy.
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In the long tradition of courtship, there has been a tradition of drinking alcohol on dates. Having drinks has always been an integral part of dating for some reason. Most people when going out on dates, are for some reason going out just for drinks, or to a place where they will have drinks perhaps while doing something else, of not just sitting there drinking and talking. But not just any kind of drink, one that is intoxicating. It seems so natural and normal when you are doing it, yet when stated so plainly in this way it also seems very strange that people would consider sitting at a table having intoxicating beverages with each other and somehow view that as a romantic “date” and an important aspect of courtship. And no one seems to know exactly why they are doing this either, and are simply doing so because it is a common tradition. Do you know why people do this? What makes it a tradition?
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Dating With The Law of Attraction
To Get Your Ideal Mate
The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you think about and visualize getting. However in dating that is not often the case. You don’t attract who you want, or imagine yourself getting, or think you should get. You attract who you are. Because as the law of attraction states, “like attracts like”. And so you shouldn’t be dating unless you have as much or more to offer as you need to receive in a partner. Because if you are approaching dating from a standpoint of wanting/needing something(s) from someone else due to a feeling of lack from within yourself, and not having much to offer that person, you are not going to attract someone who will fulfill your needs, but rather someone who will similarly be looking for someone to take from in a vicious circle of vampirically using each other and causing a constant energy deficit in both people, like being stuck in an energy vacuum. This is why so many people end up in partnerships based upon taking from one another that is mutually diminishing rather than mutually fulfilling. But relationships should be about mutual fulfillment, growth and synergy together, not mutual diminishing each other. Luckily through The Law Of Attraction you can create that kind of synergy.
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263When it comes to dating the thing most people are concerned with is how to meet prospective mates and “pick them up” as it is called. And they should be concerned with this, as it is the most important point in any relationship, and the most important part of dating, because without meeting people, you can’t get into a relationship with them. And meeting people is not easy, in fact it can be very very hard. It is often seen as socially inappropriate to go up to a total stranger and talk to them. In fact we are taught and socially conditioned to avoid strangers from a young age, and that approaching someone with sexual intentions is improper. However nothing could be further from the truth.

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Everyone wants to know how to get the ideal mates. The biggest complaint people like me in the dating industry hear is things like “where are all the good girls” or “I just want to meet the perfect girl”, or “where are all the decent guys” or “I just want to meet my Mr. Right”.
But how do we find the ideal mates?
No one seems to know!
Because so many people are complaining that they meet lots of people who could be prospective partners, but just don’t seem to be able to find the right ones…
If only there was some special way to be able to just get the right partner(s) we want to be with…
Well you are in luck…because there is!
And that is what I am going to reveal to you here.
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If you have been reading the articles and other content I have been posting on dating and relationships, you will have realized at some point that in order to do these things well they need to be done in connection with general personal development focus. All the time people tell me that they want to learn how to get more dates, more sexual partners, a girlfriend or boyfriend, or whatever the love life that they want is…but many of them do not want to work on themselves and making them a better person, and thus a more ideal mate for others. And that is exactly the reason why they are not getting the sexual partner(s) they want, and never will even with all the dating advice, secret seduction tactics and special sex moves and other tips and tricks I could possibly teach them. For having all the best seduction methods in the world will never make up for being a poor character at heart.
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263The Secret Social Science of Seduction Exposed

Now that you have learned how to create attraction and chemistry with someone you like, which we covered in the first article (and if you didn’t read it you can do so by clicking this link here now)…We are now going to get into part 2 on the science of seduction and the actual physical and sexual tactics for making sex happen with anyone you want to turn into your sex partner, whether you are on a date, hanging out as friends, working together, etc, just as long as you have already done what you learned in the first article on Attraction.
These moves are pretty badass and require a certain amount of sexual comfort and confidence necessary to really be proactive and physically dominant. But if you can have the right state of mind and go through these moves you will not only successfully engage in sexual play, but your date will become super horny for you and want you to take things even further.
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