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Social anxiety is a topic that has been on the rise for some time, and something that most people experience at some point in their lives, if not much more often than that. Social anxiety is what happens to the brain when you are low on practice and the social centers of your brain aren’t getting enough activity so they start to shut down and it goes into an anti-social mode. It is also what happens when we experience social traumas, that is, social experiences that do not cause us physical injury, but which the brain still wires in as trauma due to their potentially detrimental nature. These experiences include harsh rejections, bullying, public humiliations, heart break, and being ostracized from a social group. Basically being treated like the runt of a litter and having no social standing, or losing what social standing you once had, causes social anxiety. This is because in ancient times when we lived in small social groups, this was basically a death sentence. However today these experiences are not, they are simply an emotional hardship that we must sometimes endure. And it is natural to experience social anxiety in certain times and situations, such as when you are trying to meet new people because your last social circle had been treating you poorly, or towards potential mates if your last one broke your heart. And instead of going to a psychiatrist and getting prescribed some drug to make you feel better but not actually get better, this can actually be a growth experience that can lead to greater emotional strength, and social skills.
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Over the course of my life I have noticed that there are a successful socialite person who is welcomed everywhere they go and able to make friends with just about anyone. These rules are taught from childhood by high society or socialite parents, and sometimes by higher status individuals to lower status individuals when inviting them to social functions, or sometimes teachers or friends, but without having one of these people in your life to teach you how to function socially in situations where your manners really matter, you are bound to do something rude or offensive, or that shows low status or that you do not know how to function socially in these types of situations and probably do not get invited to many social functions of their nature. Thus showing bad social manners at any type of social function will most always cause you to not get invited to any like them in the future. This makes you socially unsuccessful and thus you will have low social status.
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Have you ever noticed how people in society tend to congregate into different groups (social cliques) based on their personality types? And that each person tends to have a certain status in their group, and each group tends to have a certain status in society? This is because societies exist with a social structure called a “hierarchy”, also known as “classes” of people, from the most dominant high status leaders at the top, to the subordinate/submissive and average members in the middle, to the unpopular low level/status members at the bottom, and even some outliers.
This is not something that has been organized intentionally by government authorities and social engineering, this is simply the inherent way of the world and the natural order of us social animals. And where you fall into place and exist in the social hierarchy is entirely based upon your social personality type and what your natural place in your social environment is. So if you have ever been curious about sociology and the social structure of society and why things are the way that they are, or wondered about who you are socially and why your social life is the way it is, this article is going to explain exactly that to you. We will start at the top of the social hierarchy, and work our way to the bottom.
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Everyone has wants and needs in life, as well as things they do not want in life. And people want to be able to get what they do want, and not what they do not want. In fact being able to choose to get what you want and not what you don’t want is seen as one of the most fundamental inalienable human rights.
Why? Because that freedom to choose what happens to you goes right along with the fundamentally important human quality that we believe makes us human beings and gives us our humanity. What is that quality?
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The whole reason I created True Life Development was because I am awake and aware enough to see all of the problems with the world and with human nature, at least with modern man. The world is failing, and in many ways headed towards an apocalypse because of this. There are so many of social issues and personal issues we need to correct if we are going to better ourselves as a species and make the world a better place. This is why I created True Life Development – to help people to better themselves in order to enact widespread social change over time and make the world a better place for us all to live in.
But of course widespread social change all comes down to the individual and their own personal development. If you are not self actualized and living your dream life as your highest self, then you are no good to society. And since most people are not doing that, but rather are doing the opposite, living in poverty, illness, and degeneration, hence we have widespread social problems in this world.
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How Wrong is it to be Wrong?
Many people are afraid of ever admitting that they are wrong. They feel like it is wrong to be wrong, and better to just be right all the time. And even if they are not actually right, they feel it is better to assure others that they are. This comes from a place of ego and not wanting to admit than you had done something less intelligent than you thought. However admitting you are wrong and correcting yourself actually seems more intelligent. And if you look at history, you will see a lot of very large examples of highly intelligent people who did great things but also did great things wrong and should have realized they were wrong sooner when they could have done things greater.
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Many people have lives that they are not happy with and want to change. And yet when they do something to try to change their life and it doesn’t happen, they wonder why. Why, having done whatever it is that they did to effectuate this change, have they not experienced a total transformation into the lifestyle that they want?
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Many people who are lacking in the success they want to have are in this place because of their lack of connections, and having a limited social circle and business network, both in quantity and quality.
It is no secret anymore that success is not about what you do, but who you know. After all, when a big business owner is choosing executives and board members for his or her company, do you think they accept applications for these positions? Or go with people they know?
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A lot of people wonder what I mean exactly when I use the phrase “Self Actualization”. And a lot of people who come into personal development wonder “Shouldn’t I just accept myself the way I am?” and other such things.
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So I am constantly coming upon people who have the same questions in personal development, or oftentimes they are not even questions, but ignorant thoughts that would be better phrased as questions so that they could become more enlightened. So I decided to do a FAQ for all of the common introductory personal development issues out there that someone might have coming into this self improvement work, for anyone thinking about starting this great journey of self actualization.
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And now I am going to reveal to you the secrets of how to change your state of mind, and be able to feel exactly how you want to feel at any time you want to.
How am I going to do this? Through one of the new age & self help communities favorite tools!
AFFIRMATIONS!!!
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“DON’T ACT LIKE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT, JUST BE YOURSELF!”
I hear a lot of people spouting off this new age aphorism “Just be yourself” and “Don’t try to be something your not”….
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Now we are going to bring together all of my favorite topics: Psychology, IQ, The Concept of the “Self”, Social Science, and Success! All into one comprehensive article showing you how all of these things work together for your self actualization!
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