The Simple Step By Step Formula To Go From Strangers To Sex Partners With Anyone You Want!
Now you are about to learn one of the most awesome thing’s that I teach in the realm of dating. Which is how to go from being complete strangers with someone to having sex with them, in a simple step by step formula. This is something very few people out there know how to do, but once you know how to do it, you can have the type of sexual relationship with anyone you are attracted to. But beware, this is a very powerful thing to know, and you will have to use some restraint to make sure you do not become a sex addict!
This formula of mine is one of my biggest secrets that I never thought I would release for free however one of my advisers recently told me that I needed to start releasing my biggest secrets, so here is one of the best of them, which I know you will really enjoy and will bring you the love life you have always dreamed of.
Now this is something that requires a certain level of effort, care, and calibration to execute. But if you really put your mind to it and dedicate yourself to this process you will be able to get the sexual partner(s) you want. So make sure that you study this and give some serious thought to how you can apply it to your life and really give yourself to the process because with due diligence this will transform your sex life and make all your fantasies come true.
The 15 Step Meet To Sex Formula
1.) Approach & Open – You of course first need to approach the person and start a conversation with them. Which you should do using a specific opener that is guaranteed to prevent you from being ignored and engage them in an interesting conversation that can be directed towards sex later. It is best to not just say “hi” or ask for the time or something that won’t actually lead to a conversation, but for some reason is what most people do. You need to ask them an open ended question that will lead to an ongoing and in depth conversation in which you can get to know each other. This is as simple as saying “hey can I get your fe/male opinion on something?” Then ask them about something interesting that you think about sometimes (and if you have no interesting thoughts to share, then you need to work on that first).
2.) Social Mode and Comfort – At the start of the conversation you need to keep it light fun. Banter and socialize with them in a way that makes them comfortable and sets them at ease with you. This is very important since most people have a sense of “stranger danger” and are wary of others who approach them out of the blue, worried that you may be a serial killer, a salesman, or worse, an evangelist. So be funny and joke around with them to set a positive mood and make them feel good about the fact that they are talking to a complete stranger. Don’t start flirting right away, just be social and connect through normal conversation for a couple minutes.
3.) Hook, Elicit Interest & Attraction – Next you need to hook their interest and get them emotionally invested in the conversation so that they wont break away. The first and foremost, most important way to do this is by finding mutual interests that you can engage on and will be excited to have a meaningful conversation about. Also start to drop subtle cue’s that you are an attractive and desirable person (like mentioning an admirable title that you hold, or an exciting life experience that you have, etc). Start bringing up more and more interesting topics to get them more deeply interested. Make them want to engage in the conversation and contribute to the interaction more so that you are not doing all of the work, and let them start to do more and more of the talking. This will get them invested in the interaction with you so that they won’t want it to end so soon, but will be glad they met you and want it to continue.
4.) Qualification – This is where you get a bit psychological and do what is called qualifying your prospect to make sure they are the type of person you are looking for. And in doing so also encourage them to behave in the ways you want them to and elicit the qualities you want them to manifest for you in your dynamic. You can do this by simply saying something like “You are very (insert quality here), aren’t you? I like that.” Doing this changes the dynamic from social to potentially romantic, and you will be able to proceed to the next step.
5.) Flirtation and Touching – After qualification you can begin to flirt and touch them affectionately so that the interaction begins to move beyond the social and will start to have romantic/sexual potential. By starting to flirt and touch them while continuing to have meaningful conversation you begin creating the kind of romantic connection sexual chemistry you want to have with them. The biggest part of flirting is playful teasing. And to initiate touch, start by doing so on their forearm anytime they say something funny or significant. And then work your way up to their shoulder, and then their back, and their side, by giving them playful pats, nudge’s and shoves at key moments in the interaction. Now things will be progressing towards becoming sexual.
6.) Connection & Rapport – After flirting has begun and the dynamic has become definitively affectionate you must start to really become acquainted and connect on a deeper level. Start asking deeper more personal questions so that you can get to know who they really are as a person. And likewise, share more intimate details about yourself (without oversharing). Talk about your past experiences, your lifestyle, your passions, pursuits, goals, values, life philosophy, ideas, etc. This establishes a deeper connection that really makes sex possible.
7.) Take Them On An Instant Date or Get Their Phone Number – After establishing rapport you should know that they are interested in you, and it is time to take things to the next level and officially take the interaction into dating mode. You do not want to do this by formally “asking them out” as people used to do, as this formality is a thing of the past that is frowned upon today because it just seems too official, which makes it uncomfortable. In modern times dating is more like hanging out with a romantic vibe. Which makes it easy for you to take an interaction into dating mode, as long as you are doing some sort of date type activity. So you can do this by taking them on an “instant date” right then and there. This is as simple as suggesting that you two go and grab coffee or a drink, or just go for a walk in the park, or that one of you tag along for whatever the other was about to do. And as simple as that, you are now an a date!
However, if one or both of you has an engagement and cannot, you can just exchange phone numbers and then follow up, which is what you would have had to do at the end of the instant date anyways. Sex is probably not going to happen with someone the first time that you meet them, and most of the time you will have to follow up with them via phone and get them to see you again. However in some rare cases the person may have the entire day free and you may be hitting it off famously and have enough connection and chemistry to jump past the next two steps. But these are exceptions to the rules, and usually it does take two dates. Though you do need to be ready to go for it in those few cases, and if you are, a fair percentage of the sex I have had was after just meeting the person for the first time. So the key here is to be moving the interaction forward any way you can!
8.) Follow Up And Phone Communication – After you part ways after the first time you meet you must use proper follow up tactics via both text messaging and verbal phone conversations in order to keep their interest and not “lose your lead” as it is called in social networking. Due to the fact that most people of social value (who are attractive and interesting) have very active social lives, they have a lot of people texting and calling them all the time, and are getting invited out all the time too. So if you do not stay on their radar this connection will die on the vine within days. So make sure you are texting them with interesting/engaging “response bait” texts to keep the conversation going. And give them a call so that they can hear your voice and you can keep flirting and maintain the connection, and eventually ask them out again, which needs to be done as soon as possible, within a week at the latest, otherwise they will forget what they felt when they were with you and it probably won’t ever happen at all.
9.) Date Planning and Logistics – Then you must plan a date with them in the proper manner and deal with logistics in order to make sure that you can get them to agree to see you again, and not flake out on you. Again, when trying to get them on a date, do not “ask them out” in a formal way. Find out when they are free, and then tell them you want to get together, or hang out at one of those times. Then you have to get it scheduled. Get them to pick which time works best for them, and commit to it, and make sure that they are putting it down in their calender. You need to do this by giving them an actual incentive to make sure that they are interested in coming to the date and will show up for it. So make sure that you make date plans with them that they can be excited about! You can also simply tell them about something fun/interesting you want to do, that just so happens to be something that you know they will be interested in and excited about based upon what you have learned from them during rapport building. And then you can then invite them to come along with you.
After doing the scheduling you have to deal with logistics. And you will find that dating is essentially all about logistics. Make sure that they know exactly where the date location is, what time to meet you there, and how to get there, otherwise they are likely to be late, get lost, or flake. And if you can, it is best to call them a car and have them driven there, or to go pick them up and take them to the date the old fashioned way (just as long as you do not seem old fashioned about doing it), as these are the only surefire ways to ensure that they actually show up. And also to prevent flaking, make sure you keep them engaged by text leading up to the date.
10.) Deep Rapport – When you meet up with them again on your first planned date then it is time to take your relationship to the next level and go deeper into dating mode. You will do this by building even deeper rapport to really start to connect with them in emotional and romantic ways. This will start to create what is called in social psychology “pair-bonding” between you two, which will lead you to become romantic/sexual partners. You can do this by talking about your childhood, life changing or emotional experiences you have had, hopes and dreams, spirituality (not religion!), and other deep meaningful topics. While doing this it is important to have some sort of physical contact at times, such as holding hands, putting your hand on their knee/thigh, wrapping your arm around them, etc. which will help to create the deepest rapport and connection between the two of you. Doing this makes kissing possible which you may feel free to do at any point during or after this stage.
11.) Sexualization – Once you have established deep rapport you may begin to sexualize the interaction both verbally and non-verbally. You may have invested so much emotionally at this point that you will start to get nervous at the thought of getting sexual, worrying about coming so far only to get rejected when you go in for the kiss or any kind of sexual touching. But do not stop yourself! They would not have come this far with you and connected with you as much as they already have only to stop themselves from making out with you or getting sexual. So start making your touching sexual in nature, and start making out with them! Now is the time you have been waiting for, there is no looking back now! Get sexual!
12.) Physical Escalation – After sexualizing the interaction through sexual touch and kissing, you need to continue to escalate it from there. However you do not want to go too fast. You need to do what is called “fractionating”. This means that you will do some sexual things, then go back to doing some more social things. Then after a little while you can get sexual again, and take it even further. Then go back to social mode, and then sexual again, taking it even further once more. And so you will proceed back and forth again and again, getting more sexual each time. This prevents you from seeming too eager/desperate for sex, or seeming pushy or predatory, or making it seem like you are using them for it and that is all you want them for (which hopefully is not the case). And in using this method you will be able to touch them in more and more sexual ways/places and get more and more passionate, without them stopping you, but rather, having them become more and more sexual and passionate with you.
13.) Foreplay – Once you have sexualized your physical touch and gotten back to one of your homes where sex is possible, your sexual escalation can turn into actual foreplay. This means that you are not just making out and petting each other anymore, but that you are beginning to engage in sex acts that are preliminary to intercourse itself. This is where you will begin removing items of clothing from each other one at a time (remember to use fractionation here as well), and can explore each others bodies more with your hands and mouths. Make sure to take your time with this in order to generate enough arousal to ensure that sex can happen, and be good, because without enough arousal, it won’t, and without enough foreplay, you won’t have enough arousal. And prolonged foreplay also generates massive sexual tension that will drive your partner wild and make them so hot for you that they will want you to fuck them badly! So make sure you engage in at least 15 minutes of foreplay, or more, before proceeding to the next step.
14.) Oral Sex – After foreplay the last step before initiating sex is oral sex. Any person who is not ready for sex yet will become so when you perform good oral sex on them, making it a very important key to getting laid. And oral sex is just one of the hottest sex acts out there that everyone loves receiving, and most people love giving. So once you have done every bit of foreplay that you can think of and you and your partner are grinding up against each other and are so hot that your genitals can’t take it anymore and just need to get wet, you can start performing oral sex on one another. It is important for at least one of the genitals to be made extremely wet by oral sex before proceeding with intercourse. And it is also important for the woman to at least have one orgasm through cunnilingus before proceeding with it as well. Take your time and enjoy this stage, don’t rush it. If you do it well, you will be sure to make it to the final step and get the sex that you want, and the oral sex will only make it a fuller experience.
15.) Actual Sexual Intercourse – After oral sex is complete you can finally engage in beautiful glorious coitus with your partner in all of its splendor. Make sure you gain consent by asking them if they are ready and asking them to grab a condom. Make sure you start slow at first and then gradually increase speed and intensity. And use a variety of angles and positions while doing so. And make sure to constantly be using your hands and mouths while doing so as well. And to maintain your connection through eye contact and verbal communication. Sex should not just be about mechanical pumping. And when you employ a variety of techniques and stimulus and make it romantic and passionate, it is the most amazing experience you could ever possibly have. So enjoy!
So now that you have read through these 15 steps you can see how this formula is indeed a very solid system that will work with just about anyone. Even someone you haven’t even met before and thus is as far from a sexual partner as can be, but when brought through this process, will naturally become your lover in a very minimal amount of time. When you use this simple process having sex becomes just automatic as long as you are going through these basic motions. And so this formula is a very powerful one to have, which will ensure that, as long as you are using it properly and not forgetting any of the steps or their order, you will never have to sleep alone again…unless you want to, which when your bed is constantly full, you will actually come to at times haha!
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