In order to find romantic partners, especially if you want a relationship, you need to be ready for one and have yourself and your life calibrated to be receptive to romantic partners. One of the biggest things I see in people who complain of not being able to find love or get sex or even get dates, is that they haven’t done certain things to make sure they are ready for it and can attract mates to themselves. Many of these people do not really know who they are so how could they possibly connect with someone else? Or maybe they do not have a lifestyle that is conducive to dating, or coupleship. Or maybe they just do not know what they even want at all besides to just not be lonely. But whatever the case, here in this chapter, we are going to make sure that you are not one of those people.
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