True Life Relationships - Seductive Personality Archetypes
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For those who know anything about psychology you know that there are what are called “Personality Archetypes” which were first set forth by Carl Jung one of the pioneers of modern psychology, but now there are a lot of personality profiles that can tell you what your personality type is as well. When it comes to romantic relationships and how we relate to the opposite sex there are a specific set of personality archetypes for that and how we do so. These are especially exciting and illustrate the various personality traits and behavioral patterns people use for seduction and romance.
As a person who specializes in personality typology, as well as seduction, relationships and sexuality, this has been a certain focal point in my work. I have studied varioius systems of personality archetypes both seductive and non-seductive, and have studied various styles of seduction and romance, and compiled a very complete list of seductive personality archetypes, which pulls from a couple various substantial systems with my own special commentary on what they are and how they work.
One can read through these archetypes and make a list of the ones they seem to embody naturally, and the ones they aspire to embodying, and then try to step into them all more fully. These are not mutually exclusive, most of them can work together very naturally, with some you may have to find a balance of different traits, but they all can be harmonized. And what you can do is figure out what proportions you want to embody each of them in and form a unique conglomerate of these archetypes and their various traits, collapsing them all into your own character to form a very unique and specific personality as a seducer which you can give your own name to. For instance mine is a “Romantic Dominant”.
These are written from the perspective of a man since men are usually the ones doing the seduction and I did not want this to be too long or elaborate. However while a few of these are only male personality types, most of the archetypes all have feminine counterparts, in some cases the names have changed (the gentleman would become the lady, the rake would be the siren or slut, the dominator would be the dominatrix/mistress, etc). In some cases there are minor ways in which the genders differ ever so slightly but generally speaking the information is the same, and if you are a woman and worry about such indescrepancies and how to calibrate any of these archetypes to your character as a woman you can either contact me, or listen to my episode of the sexuality show where the erotic personality archetypes are detailed for both genders.
So without any further ado, here they are…
THE SEDUCTIVE PERSONALITY ARCHETYPES
The Ideal Lover – This is the representation of the prince charming archetype. This is every woman’s dream guy. It is a great archetype to embody such a romantic hero if you can do it right. This archetype is the thing of fairy tales or classic romance movies. He is every girls dream guy. The problem you will run into is trying to find the right women who are actually ready for this kind of fairy tale romance figure, as many become insecure around him when he shows up or think that he is too good to be true. However with those who can actually receive such great romance and love into their life, you can create a fantasy type romance that will seduce, enchant, and make them fall in love with you. So if you think that you can actually fit into this archetype, it can be a wonderful thing to aspire to. But it is big shoes to fill, and you will find that it is actually often too much for many women who will either get insecure and run away, or will fall psychotically in love and turn into crazy clingy stalkers. So consider yourself warned.
The Dandy – The dandy is a very elegant man. Very eloquently spoken, very well dressed, very classy and sophisticated even if he is not high society. He is also very in touch with his feminine side and his play on the sexual polarity and the sexual energy he oozes, as well as his sheer beauty is very sexually liberating to women. His play on sexuality and gender roles confuses women’s socially conditioned mind and intrigues them and opens them to new possibilities of how they can experience sexuality as a spectrum, which is a powerful experience to give a woman. He is so respectable, elegant, classy and sophisticated that as long as he is not seeming pretentious or gay he is loved and sought after by women. A great archetype to embody if you feel you are strong enough to be able to so do as a man who is in touch with his feminine side (just make sure you are not seeming pretentious or gay).
The Natural – This is a man who has boyish charm because he has always been good with women ever since his school days. He does not really feel the need to put on any sort of song or dance for women, he feels confident enough to be himself and say or do anything to a woman simply relying upon his strong frame to create the attraction that he wants (and oftentimes his attractive image). A very risky archetype to try to embody if you are not naturally a natural, and one that does not always work even for naturals (you certainly can at times say things that will put women off), but one that does work for many and that you should take a lesson from the frame control of in any case.
The Coquette – The coquette is a grand tease. Someone who is constantly baiting women and reeling them in just to release them back and repeat the process. They are an expert in the game of push pull and fractionate hot and cold to drive their targets wild. The Coquette changes the buyer seller dynamic dramatically and makes women pursue him. They are master seducers by building huge amounts of sexual tension until their target cant stand it anymore and they just explode into sex. However the coquette truly enjoys the game for its own sake, and is not attached to the outcome of sex, and thus they get it. And when they do, they have built up so much value, and sexual tension, that their sexual experiences are quite powerful. An archetype we should all take a lesson from, but one that is difficult to fully embody, however if you think you can or want to try, you certainly should.
The Charmer/Charismatic – A socialite archetype. More social than sexual. Charmers/Charismatics are very good at social networking and making others like them and can accumulate great social currency and be very persuasive and influential. They can even manipulate others if they want. However their weakness is that they are often too caught up in social mode to go sexual, which is a trap you should not fall into even if you are acquiring great social status, which you will as a charmer. So this is a very useful archetype but make sure you are using your charm and social status for seductive purposes, which can be powerful for the charmer when they do it. They just have to be able to remove themselves and their target from the social scene so as not to affect either of their reputations.
The Star – A celebrity type, or even an aspiring celebrity type. Be it a politician or a musician, a CEO or entrepreneur, an author or an actor, the star enchants us with their lofty reality. Even if it is a starving artist who only aspires to stardom and has big dreams, we get caught up in their reality, which is better than our own mundane one. They have a way of captivating attention and enthralling others. They are great entertainers and very inspiring. They can take people away from their boring lives and all their concerns, and even prey on others weakness and lure them into investing in their pursuits and dreams…or if they have already become self actualized and made it big, they can easily become a playboy and create a harem of various lovers. A great archetype to aspire to if you do in fact have great dreams and pursuits.
The Playboy/Partyer – The fun playful type. This archetype causes women to release their inhibitions and just have fun. It makes women feel free, and creates peak experiences. This is one of the archetypes that gets laid the most because when women are with him they feel like he wouldn’t judge them no matter what they did, and feel completely open and free to do anything they want, and like they should because he wants him to. The experience this man creates for women is one where they are just having so much fun and such a climactic experience that sex is the next natural step at some point in the night. This can be done if you are a college student or just a bar going sports fan, but can be very next level if you have money and like to travel and take vacations, as these types of things can turn into sex romps and adventures. If you are a fun exciting socialite type and want to have as much promiscuous sex as possible this is definitely an archetype for you to step into.
The Helper/Giver – This is a man of integrity who really enjoys giving value to women. And through giving value and helping them he wins over their hearts and a special place in their lives, and makes them want to be a part of his. However the great danger with this archetype is seeming supplicating or lower value and like you feel the need to overcompensate for your low value by giving/helping. Many helpers/givers also are actually treating women like prostitutes whos affections can be bought with things that they give/do. It is important not to seem try hard or overcompensating, and not to supplicate to women as if you are lower value. The essence of this archetype, when done correctly, is that you are someone who can enrich the lives of others. But do so modestly and in moderation. Even when giving too much value and having it be received positively it can make women feel inadequate and become insecure towards you. So you do not want to display too much value over her. Just be someone who can contribute positively to their life and you will win women’s hearts.
The Broken Angel – Also known as the dark angel. This is someone who is mysterious and goes against social norms and thus has a certain allure to them because women don’t often want someone who is like everyone else. The best example is the dark and brooding artist or philosopher. This person has strengths and is charming to women but also has weaknesses and vulnerability that pulls women in. He doesn’t hide his negative aspects like most men try to, but instead uses them to illicit the womans helpful/caregiver side and gets her invested in helping him out, and thus she invests emotionally as well. This is something that will often not work unless calibrated exactly right, because sometimes these types can just seem weak and needy, immature, weird, or like negative creeps. However when you don’t play on this archetype too strong, and focus on being charming, different, mysterious, but also has a dark brooding side and certain vulnerabilities that just makes a woman want to try to make a positive contribution to and connect with in her feminine way, it will work for you well.
The Dominant – This is a type of man who is extremely aggressive and physically dominant with women. He has no trouble with asking for consent and he is not a sexual predator or rapist in the least. Rather the contrary, he is someone who sweeps women off of their feet and makes them want to enthusiastically consent to him to do whatever he wants even if it is incredibly aggressive or hardcore. He elicits womens hidden desires to have a man who is extremely assertive and controlling, and physically dominant, even abusive. He knows what most men don’t, that women enjoy things like being choked and having a man get rough with them…and some even have rape fantasies and other deviant fetishes. He knows exactly how to bring up these fetishes and fantasies and be the one man who can fulfill them. And he uses the power of his mind to control the minds of women and get them to submit to him sexually and otherwise. He will often cultivate a huge harem of women who were once sexually frustrated and are now his personal sex slaves, and love being controlled and dominated by him. Something to aspire to if you are a very hardcore badass type of guy and think you could really step into this role, though it is certainly not for those who aren’t sure about it. More on this in a later chapter.
The Rake/Ruthlessly Sexual – This is a man who is called in modern terms the “player”. He is very promiscuous and knows that there is nothing wrong with living in sexual abundance, and he does. He has a lot of sex and is very skilled at making it happen, especially since he is not very picky about who he does so with. This is a man who is completely sexually liberated and unashamed of his sexuality and has no problem with showing it. He is totally sexually open and will express his sexual intentions comfortably and confidently anywhere and any way he wishes. He is very good at turning social situations sexual and leading with his comfortability. However his one weakness is that he is often lacking in social acuity and is unattuned to social cues, and thus will sometimes be lacking comfort and social calibration when he is going sexual with a woman and thus will get resistance from her at some point and be unable to go “all the way”. Women may often feel “buyers remorse” at some point in the interaction as they may feel as though they are being used or that he is superficial, (which he can be), so watch out for that as this archetype. But if you can embody this archetype and still focus on being able to be socially comfortable and calibrated, and make women feel like they are not being used as just sex objects, you can achieve sexual abundance as this archetype. Just make sure that you use condoms, and try to maintain a high standard.
The Spiritualist – Like the star the spiritualist live in a fantasy world which he brings into the womens reality, engulfing her with it, and enchanting her. But beyond what the star offers, he gives greater meaning to her existence. He gives her greater depth in her own mind and character and opens her to her own spirit and parts of herself she has never experienced before. He creates a higher level of being for her to live at, and a wonderous new world where everything is more fantastic and a bit surreal. This is highly seductive and can make women fall in love with you. He engages the womens imagination, emotions, and senses in a magickal way that makes her feel ethereal…and can very much be like casting a spell on her. He can also make women feel like they have a very special spiritual connection that a woman has never experienced before with a man and is very dream like. He can make her feel like they are soul mates, and like when they make love it is a spiritual act such as in tantra or sex magick, and she will feel a synergy between them and become extremely orgasmic. This archetype is exotic and exciting for women but can oftentimes be seen as just a novelty item and not taken seriously if you do not calibrate to the women right and use your social intelligence to give her some amount of normalcy and groundedness. It can also be overwhelming for some women who may find it too strange and ungrounding and opt out at some point, but will work on many women very well, and make them have extremely strong feelings for you. You can even become like a god to women and build a harem of spiritual love slaves or goddesses to serve your every sexual need, or even build a cult following with. This is a dangerous archetype, but if you are a person who is very spiritual and feels he has the morality to be able to execute it properly, it is an extremely powerful one that I highly recommend using. More on how to become like a god to women in a later chapter.
The Innocent – This archetype represents a sweet boyish charm and purity that is very lovable. He is so naïve it is endearing and takes women back to their school girl days, which every girl actually wishes they could remain at. While many women want a rake, many also want a man who has not been corrupted yet and is still pure and innocent and sweet. For them this archetype is very lovable, though it can also be frustrating at times due to his immaturity. Try not to seem painfully novice or immature so that you lose respect and value. And do not be so childish that you turn the women you date into your mothers. The point here is to have a sweet innocent boyish charm that women find so endearing and gives them the ability to reconnect with their inner child and young girlish nature that they have always wanted to be able to stay in touch with. This must be calibrated carefully, but when it is, you can use this archetype to have great romance with women of all ages, no matter what age you are at.
The Nice Guy – This is the guy that is boyfriend material that women seek after. And while many people say that “nice guys finish last” and many nice guys complain that women only date/fuck assholes, and this is true in many cases, if the nice guy is calibrated properly he is someone who can get women, and lots of them, and have them supplicate to him. The point here is that you being a nice guy must come from the fact that you have great social value and high social status. Your being nice should not be a supplicating overcompensation for your lack of value. It should also not be something that you do in friendly mode as a token that you think is going to get you sex in return. Most nice guys that complain about the friend zone are doing so because they stayed in friendly mode and were nice to the girl and don’t have the social intelligence to understand that this is not flirtation, and are confused as to why she didn’t just reward them with affections and romance. Women are not going to have sex with you for just being friendly and nice. However, if done in a certain way, it can get you into sexual relationships. But it must be done out of your having high social value and status and thus feeling the confidence and ability to be able to be nice to people fearlessly, and expecting them to react positively. Think about entrepreneurs and business people who do a lot of networking. They are all very nice and friendly to everyone they meet, and yet they exude such value, status, confidence and POWER that people do not take their niceness for granted, but take it as a gift and are nice back. And these types of people are saught after mates for women. The social networking entrepreneurial nice guys I know get tons of women this way. And they don’t just get women flirting with them, giving them their phone numbers, or having one night stands with them…Women want to make these guys into boyfriends and husbands because they are just so valueable that women want to lock them down and own them. The nice guy when done right is a womans prize, it is what all women are looking for most ultimately to marry. You too can be saught after by women. You just cant get trapped in the friendly/social mode. You have to be nice in a flirtatious sweet and romantic way. Don’t just talk to the girl, talk sweet to her, use sexual body language, deep eye contact, look at her a certain way, be romantic, and don’t be afraid to use your social confidence and suave to go sexual and dominant too. If you can do this women will be lining up to be your boyfriend.
The Adventurer – This is a guy who is exotic, exciting and lives a fantasy life of doing whatever he wants, being extremely active, trying new things, and going on adventures all the time be they within his immediate social environment where his home base is, or travelling the world to exotic cultures. Women find this extremely alluring, and it is something that most women want, or at least claim to. You will get some women who do not want to step out of their comfort zone unless you are extremely seductive about it, or you are offering great luxuries. However if you have the money to spend freely on lavish items, activities and trips, most any woman will try new exciting things with you and go on spontaneous adventures with you at a moments notice. Women will make time for a seductive man who is offering to take them on a trip, and it is easy to have an epic sex life that way because sex will just naturally involve itself in those kinds of adventures. However a master seducer in this archetype doesn’t need to spend a lot of money on women taking them on lavish trips and such, he can just create a spur the moment adventure with a woman he has just met by taking her on a scenic walk and then back to his apartment where he will cook new foods for her and some crazy craft cocktails and then have epic sex with her there where he gets her to try some new kinky fetishes and explore some sexual experimentations and fantasies. Adventure is a state of mind you have to exist in, and when you do you can create a scene of adventure any where and any way you want to and whisk women away into it, and make sex with them the climax. Just make sure that you are not focusing too much on the activities as your seduction, as this could seem try hard or like overcompensation. You must be able to actually connect with the girl as well. So make sure that you getting to know each other and exploring that interpersonal connection that is developing is the main part of the adventure, and not necessarily what you are doing. What you are doing together activity wise should just be the background and part of your situation and logistics. The real adventure is the romance and relationship that you are developing together. If you can embody this archetype it is an extremely powerful one that will get you the love life of your dreams.
The Seducer – This is the charmer/charismatic but not in the social context and instead the romantic/sexual. The seducer is very charming and charismatic, but he is much more geared towards romance and sexuality. His vibe is distinctly sexual and he oozes sexual energy. When talking to a woman he relates man to woman in a very polarized fashion. He is highly affectionate and sensual. He knows exactly how to turn a woman on and make her feel good sexually, and can connect with her emotionally if he needs to as well to make her feel good romantically, but won’t always do this if he doesn’t need to. He knows how to get in touch with a woman on a deep sexual level and connect with her sexually like no guy can. He knows how to elicit womens fantasies and fetishes and bring out all of their hidden desires and create scenarios they have always dreamed about but never been able to actually act out with any man. He is the type of guy who can get even the most conservative women to break taboos and do things they had never dared. And he can turn women onto super kinky things that they would have never done if he hadn’t convinced them. He can even be manipulative and when stirring up womens emotions use that to get them to do things that they would otherwise know they shouldn’t, but are too caught up in their feelings for him. However ethically, he is the type of guy who just wants to make women feel good and give them the gift of pleasure which they may have thought was forbidden and been deprived of. He is the sexually frustrated womans savior. And he can connect with women emotionally and be an amazing lover if that is what he wants. This is the don juan archetype, and his love life is an epic romance like that we see in the movies, but it can exist in real life. In fact this is a great archetype to embody which is the most general and able to be combined with any and every other one most easily. So if it sounds good to you go ahead and step into it!
The Gentleman – This is an old fashioned mans man type, like those found up until the 1950’s. A very masculine man. A man of integrity and values. A man of respect and honor. A very classy and sophisticated man. One who knows how to dress and likes wearing traditional mans attire such as collard shirts and suits. A man who still abides by the old fashioned social protocols of treating women with respect and chivalry. He opens doors for women, compliments them, and will offer to pick up the tab when they are out. He is gallant, but not supplicating. For old fashioned men did respect women, but with a balance of slight playful misogyny. They weren’t afraid to go sexual with a girl be it by going for the kiss or smacking her on the ass as she walks through the door he is holding open for her. He takes her coat when she enters his apartment, and has no problem with taking off other clothes of hers as well, as long as she is consentual, which, why wouldn’t she be with a man who is so classy, respectful, and gallant? He relates to her as man to woman in a sexually polarizing way, and creates a romantic experience for her. He gives her the comfortable and pleasurable experience of more formalized dating, without it being socially awkward or weird, because he is very charming. He is romantic but not in a way that overcompensates for his feelings that sex is wrong, rather the contrary. He genuinely enjoys the experience total experience of courtship and enjoying a womans company. Sex to him is just the climax of an evening well spent with a female companion. And at the end of the evening he gives her the option of sleeping over or walking her to her car. And if she does sleep over, he makes her breakfast in the morning, because they will be hungry after a long night of love making. And he will probably give it to her again before she leaves, if she can actually bring herself to. For when executed correctly the gentleman archetype is one that women want more than anything, for they have been socially programmed their whole life to. It is one that when they find they will often attach themselves to and cling to and attempt to turn into their boyfriend or husband. Like the nice guy he is certainly boyfriend/husband material, however unlike the nice guy usually is, he is oftentimes one who is really enjoying dating around with more than just one woman. But he is very honest about his intentions and never leads women on, and they respect how honest and genuine he is and know they can trust him. Thus he gets his way with them in many cases. This can be a great role to aspire to, however just make sure that if you are attempting to embody it you are not doing so in the wrong ways. For many men call themselves gentlemen as a way of making themselves feel better about their supplication to women. This is not what a true gentleman does. A true gentleman is just a very strong male gender role and a grande courtier in the old fashioned formalized sense. But he most certainly knows how to control a situation in his favor and create a scene of romance. He is not just someone who pays for dates with women and opens doors for them in hopes of them rewarding him with a kiss at the end of it.
The Corruptor – The corruptor is a very sexually liberated adventurous man who really enjoys exploring their sexuality with women. And due to their sexual freedom and openness they are able to really elicit a girls kinky side, even if it was something that she had always kept hidden and was barely accepting of in herself. The corruptors unconditional acceptance of human sexuality in any of its expressions and experiences is inspiring to women who are socially conditioned to be sexually frustrated, and really just want a man to liberate them from that state and give them the sexual fulfillment that men get. The corruptor is an initiator, someone who does this for women, and is very persuasive about it so that even a conservative type of girl or a novice, or someone who has been badly repressed will open up to him sexually and try new things. His ability to take full responsibility for making sex happen makes women comfortable with relinquishing responsibility to him and allowing him to take the lead and introduce them to new experiences, even if their consent is not verbalized they will often go along and enjoy themselves. He connects with the side of a woman that is unfulfilled and curious about her sexuality. He elicits a persons unexplored sexual fantasies and hidden fetishes that they have often been ashamed of and feel are so taboo that they would never have been comfortable enough sharing them with any other kind of man but this. However all they secretly wanted was to be able to feel unashamed of them and be able to experience them freely without the moral conundrum. And this is what the corruptor gives them the gift of. He makes them a reality shamelessly and in a way that brings them so much pleasure that they are no longer concerned with the idea that they are “taboo”. He liberates women sexually and can turn a complete novice or conservative such as a catholic school girl into a sexual deviant freak. He will even be able to get women to try new sexual experiments that they would have never thought that they liked, and get them to like it. The corruptor can take a young religious virgin who had been saving herself for marriage and turn her into his sex slave. Once he brings out the part of their sexual persona they had always repressed they can even get addicted to the fetishes he introduces them to. He can get innocent girls involved in gang bangs or pornography. This is a dangerously powerful archetype to embody because if you are unethical or have some sort of evil intentions you can really hurt others and that can bring some very bad karma upon you, which will be damaging to your own psyche and lifestyle. You don’t want to be having girls complain to their parents or the police that you had done anything to them without their consent. So when being a sexual corruptor, make sure you are doing so ethically, and with the girls best interest and pleasure in mind. If you can do that this is a great archetype to embody and will give you an incredibly wild and epic sex life.
The Romantic – The romantic is a very passionate, affectionate, emotional, and sensual archetype. It is very seductive and sexual, and very much like the seducer archetype however they are more emotional in their connection with women and more courtship oriented, and less purely sensual/sexual. The romantic is a lover archetype. However they are not “the ideal lover” archetype because they do not have to be a prince charming or ultimate romantic hero. They are just a romantic person and could be so with any other personality type. They simply can cultivate an air of romance in everything they do with a woman and are able to sweep her away into a romantic experience be it on a date or not. They could just be hanging out casually anywhere and he will be able to turn it into a scene of romance like something out of a movie. Whether he is very courtship oriented or not the romantic makes women feel the feelings that they really want to feel when being courted by a man they consider boyfriend material, whom they may very well fall in love with. However the romantic is a lover and is oftentimes polyamorous. But like the gentleman he is ethical in his love life and never leads women on to believe they are becoming his monogamous girlfriends when that is the case. He is strong enough in his frame to be able to tell girls that he is dating around right now, or is a polyamorous person. However he does connect with each individual girl very deeply emotionally in very special ways and makes them feel that they have a very meaningful dynamic, which they do. He is very good at developing relationships and managing them, but also able to have casual sexual relations and still create a romantic scenario for them without complicating them or making it weird and awkward when he does by involving too many emotions or the wrong ones. He is the master of the art of love in all contexts and knows how to create romance in any number of ways to fit any number of situations and apply itself to the personality types of any number of girls. And they are usually able to seduce large number of girls because they are oftentimes very socialite types who are able to romanticize their social interactions quite well. However they can also be introverts who focus on smaller numbers of girls. And when they do commit themselves to long term relationships they are able to keep the romance and passion alive over time so that their sex life never has to die down and become boring or monotonous. They are the types who you will see still happily and passionately married after 40 or 50 years. And when they are not monogamous, they are the type who will be polyamorous in a very ultimate way and have a large number of lovers, who all know about one another and are fine with being part of a harem or group marriage simply because the romantic connection they share with this man is so amazing that they feel like nothing could compromise it, and they do not want to loose it by forcing an ultimatum on him. So this is one of the most powerful archetypes to have and one that is great to embody, especially since it is so general that it can be applied to any number of the others. Just be sure that you do not use it to lead women on or allow them to get emotionally attached to you if you are just looking for casual sex. Do not create the wrong types of romance in situations it is miscalibrated for, that way the girls will understand what is going on and be able to appreciate it for what it is.
The Sensualist – This is the one archetype that does not really stand alone usually, but should be combined with other archetypes because the sensualist is more about what he does and not who he is, and could seem superficial or lacking in real character if used alone. This is someone who is extremely focused on physical pleasure and creating sensations of various kinds. He is a charlatan and can turn physical existence into a very wonderful thing by introducing stimuli of all different kinds and producing an intoxicating experience. This is a very powerful thing to be able to do in dating. Indulging a womans senses in as many ways as possible, as much as possible, and creating a sensual experience and dynamic with a woman will lead very directly to sex. Just make sure that you do not seem too superficial or become a slave to your own sensory pleasure like a drug addict. Simply be a person who enjoys indulgence and sensory stimuli, and is very affectionate and sensual. Use nice smelling cologne, nice clothes that happen to feel very soft and pleasant to the touch, take her out on very fun, exciting and indulgent dates, feed her exotic food and drink, use aphrodisiacs, back at your apartment use incense, play sexy music, cultivate a very romantic atmosphere at your place with a lot of pleasant and sensually oriented imagery, have a very comfortable couch for her to sit on and soft luxurious bedsheets, use sensual touching and erotic massage, perform cunnilingus and advanced sexual techniques on her and give her more orgasms than anyone ever has and new sensations that no one has ever created for her sexually with your touch (and penis). When you create a whole new level of multi-dimensional pleasure for the woman to experience you will have amazing sex with a lot of women because as you can see one pleasure will lead to the next and as you introduce sensual touching and build the erotic tension and start sexually escalating and giving her more pleasure at some point sex is just the next thing that will occur naturally. Just make sure that you do not seem superficial or too caught up in physicality and like you actually have a personality she can connect with and some depth of character, and this is a very useful archetype.
So now that you know what personality archetypes you fit into, and which ones you want to, you can begin to embody them more completely to become a better lover and effectuate the love life of your dreams!