TLR – Secrets Of Attraction & Seduction, Part 1
Top Secrets of Attraction!
And now I will address the real topic that everyone really wants to know about in the world of dating and relationships, how to attract and seduce the mates that they want.
As you may know, there are specific tactics that are used by master seducers of all kinds which produce the sexual interactions and relationships you want to have. And being a teacher of these things, I know what these are, and have a number of my own special personal secrets. And while I never thought I would be releasing these secrets, my business consultant advised me that I should, so today is your lucky day!
Here in this article I am going to give you a complete arsenal of special seduction and sexual escalation “moves” you are going to use to seduce a girl and have sex with her. This is the really exciting stuff. But these are not just sexual moves and techniques, but ones for making sure you can actually get to sex at all. Too many men spend time learning about sexual techniques when they are not even having any sex because they don’t have enough techniques for how to get to sex. So its important to learn seduction and sexual escalation first. Then you can learn what to do during sex.
It is very important to know exactly what to do at certain points of the interaction in order to make sure it is progressing in the sexual direction you want it to. There are some key points that you need to make sure you know what to do during. These are:
1.) When it is time to get her phone number
2.) When you are going to create chemistry and sexualize the interaction
3.) When you are going to touch her sexually
4.) When you are going to go for the kiss
5.) When you are going to touch her vagina
6.) When you are going to have sex with her (and get her consent)
So lets create some specific moves and techniques you can use for each of these scenarios to make sure that when you get to the point of the interaction when you want to do so you are prepared to and can do so flawlessly. I will first give you my own personal secret methods and moves for doing each of these things, and then give you the space to create your own custom moves as well.
Magic Bullet Techniques For Attracting Mates
So the first thing you need to know how to do in order to make sex happen is how to open a good conversation with someone. There is actually no more important moment in a relationship than the moment of meeting. Because it is the moment that makes everything else possible. And if you do not make a good impression when you first meet someone it is very hard to recover, because everything they think about you is going to be filtered through the lens of that first impression (studies have actually proven this). And whats more is that if your intentions with someone are sexual, you need to make sure you are meeting them in a manner that is conducive to that, and not another type of dynamic such as social/friendly, or professional.
So you need to open a conversation with them saying something like “Oh my god I love your hair/dress/X, you’ve got a really great style! I’m (insert your name here).” This shows that its not just a friendly interaction and that you have some degree of attraction to them which is why you are approaching, but it is not like you are hitting on them or being aggressive, you are just giving them a light compliment, but also showing that you want to meet them and exchanging names so that it is known that you are there to get to know each other, and you are not just giving the compliment in passing.
Next what you need to do is called “changing the buyer/seller dynamic which means that instead of you trying to sell yourself to them and get them to buy, you turn the tables on them and make them be the ones selling themselves to you and turn yourself into the buyer.. This is done through hooking, demonstrating authority, and qualification. You need to be able to hook the conversation which is often done through talking about a mutual interest and showing that you can offer value in the realm of something they are interested in, which demonstrates authority in their world and makes them put you on the pedestal rather than the other way around. After hooking you want to start to insert some of the attraction triggers I mentioned earlier. To qualify a prospect you can simply say something like “Wow you seem very (insert quality you want in a partner here), are you?” If it is a positive quality they will usually agree, and then work to display it more and maintain your favor. This changes the buyer seller dynamic and gets them investing in you and trying to make it happen with you at least equally, which is one of the greatest skills of a master pick up artist or seducer. Just look at how it makes women go after you:
The reason this girl is so ferociously biting my cheek like a little blonde tigress is because we had been kissing and hugging and then I pushed her away. This tactic, which builds upon the changing the buyer/seller dynamic, is called Push/Pull. This means that, similar to changing the buyer/seller dynamic, you are making her be the one come after you. However you are doing this by first bringing them in, either with attraction tactics, or qualification/compliment, or by actually physically getting closer and starting to touch them in an affectionate way of some sort, and then pushing them away with some sort of opposite force. So if you had just complimented them you can tease them. Or if you had just been caressing and fondling each other you can push them away playfully. This makes them want to try harder to resume the previous dynamic which they were enjoying, and like with changing the buyer seller dynamic it makes them become the proactive/aggressive ones in the interaction, attempting to re-initiate what you two were doing before. It is a very powerful tactic that will produce great results for you and make seduction so much easier as it causes the woman to really engage in it.
But of course, what everyone really wants to know about is how to get someones phone number gith? Well one of the greatest secret tricks I employ for getting a prospects number is a really amazing hack I discovered about two years ago and have used to get literally hundreds of phone numbers over the past couple years. This tactic is so simple but so amazing. What have to do is offer them your number. Yup, that’s right…just say “Hey I gotta get going but why don’t I give you my number and we can talk more later?” Its so easy! And who is going to refuse that? See asking a girl or guy for their number makes them seem like the valuable one that you are trying to get, making them the buyer and you the seller. And it makes it seem like there is a risk involved to them. Like what if you are some needy person who will be bothering them all the time and wont leave them alone if they want you to? This is why many times fake numbers are given out when people ask for each others number.
However when you offer your number it puts them in control which makes it feel safer to them…and it also makes you seem like the valuable one that they are supposed to be pursuing…YOU are the buyer and THEY are the seller…However here is the catch: Many times, especially if you are the man trying to get the number of a woman, the person is not going to follow up with you. Remember that people HATE having to take responsibility for making sex happen. Its just too much pressure, it makes them so nervous! So especially if they like you they will not follow up. It is very important that you be the one in control of converting your lead. Which means that you must get their phone number too!
So while you are offering them theirs, it is really just a guise where you are trying to do an exchange. And the exchange is done by you telling them to give you their phone and entering your number into it, with a cute funny nickname that relates back to the conversation you had, and then you text yourself from their phone! See how stealthy that was? You got their number completely under the radar, bypassing all of the normal awkwardness that is usually involved. And just say to them, “I’m texting myself with your name so I know who you are when you contact me.” Simple as that! Super easy and natural. You will love it. Normally asking for someones number is an awkward point in the interaction, but not anymore! With this secret tactic getting phone numbers is so smooth and easy that you are going to get more of them in the next couple weeks than you ever have in your life!
Now that you’ve learned the secrets of how to attract a mate and get a lead, I bet you are really interested in my special sexual moves for actually making the act of sex happen with them aren’t you?
Well your in luck, because against my consultants advice I have also decided not to hold back any of these signature moves either. And some of them are really hardcore, so enjoy them before I have to take them out of the public eye!
Magic Bullets for Creating Chemistry and Sexualizing the Interaction
Now we are going to get into the actual physical and sexual tactics for creating chemistry and making sex happen on a date, or when hanging out with a friend you want to turn into a lover or fuck buddy. These moves are super hardcore and require a certain amount of sexual comfort and confidence necessary to really be proactive and physically dominant. But if you can have the right state of mind and go through these moves you will not only successfully engage in sexual play, but your date will become super horny for you and want you to take things even further.
There are a number of things that create chemistry and attraction between two people and make the interaction more sexually charged. They are:
1.) Spending large amounts of time in close proximity
2.) Doing a large amount of touching
5.) The Use of Sexual Innuendo
6.) Emotional Connection
7.) Indulgence and Sensuality
8.) Doing Romantically Themed Activities Together
When you involve as many of these elements in your interactions with women as possible you will create the chemistry you want to with her, and it becomes more of a dating/sex frame.
You can also say certain things to sexualize an interaction with her, like giving her a sexual compliment such as “you’ve got a great ass” or “you have really sensual lips”. Or you can tease her and say “you sound like trouble remind me not to date you” or “Oh your one of those huh? I see how you are, I bet your relationships are all drama, just fighting and sex aren’t they?”
Another great way is to ask her questions about her sexual history. About her past boyfriends, her first love, what it feels like when she is really passionate with someone, and some of the things she has done sexually, or anything else you are curious about. This will both put her into the mood she was in when she had those experiences and give you two the opportunity to explore her sexuality together.
It is very important to be combining these together. So for instance using sexual innuendo and humor together creates a much greater effect, as you can see. As does the effect of combining indulgence and sensuality, with touch, and emotional connection. So again, the more of these you use, the better, but you want to combine these elements in the proper ways to create the right synergy.
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And now that you know the secrets of attraction, lets move on to the next article which will build upon this one and give you the next steps in what to do when you are interacting with someone you really want: The Secrets of SEDUCTION! Just click here to go there now!